lizzieTM Posted June 16, 2006 Posted June 16, 2006 After my recent run-ins with the male species id kind of given up anyhope of a successful relationship anytime soon. Id recently been involved with two guys who were in relationships and i didnt feel comfortable and tbh i lost a lot of respect for the guys as they were supposdly two of my best mates. anyway thats not what im here to talk about. By chance i started to talk to this guy who ive know for a while but never really given the time of day. Things were great and i was fully aware that he was fresh from a long term relationship so i wasnt expecting a great deal. After a couple of weeks of Dating and whatever, he asked me if i wanted to go out or basically become a couple. i agreed. He said id helped him so much to clear his head and about his ex, and that he just smiled for no reason when i was around. Things were going great. Then after about 4-5 weeks we were out with some friends it was about half one in the morning and he just said that he still thinks about his ex girlfriend and its not fair on me. I was aware that his ex had recently come back from uni for the summer and they live quite close where as i live a train ride away. I was speaking to him on the phone last night, he explained that hes really sorry about how things have worked out and how he misses spending time with me. He said he was looking at a photo he has of me and was really sorry because he likes me loads but isnt over his ex. This might be wrong but i really would take him back if he asked me. All my friends have advised me against it but i truly would. no one has made me feel that happy and special in ages. Ill be seeing him tonight as our group of friends always go out on a friday night. im just after a bit of advice on how to act around him. should i just be normal? give him the cold shoulder? or let him know how i feel?
ashnicole Posted June 16, 2006 Posted June 16, 2006 So, he made you feel special, and at the same time, chose you over someone who was supposed to be out of his life? No. Don't take him back. If you do, who's to say he wouldn't find someone better along the way, then leave you for them? Or, what about him using you until he's over his ex, then leaving you, because afterall, you made him feel better, & now he has no use for you anymore? I wouldn't do it. Just my advice.
ash8752 Posted June 16, 2006 Posted June 16, 2006 I dont even recommend going with them tonight. Ask one of your close friends to hang with you if you are hurt because he may say or do something to make you hurt even more. Stay away for a while and get over him. You deserve better than someone like that!!!
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