RaeRae82 Posted June 16, 2006 Posted June 16, 2006 ok, so my boyfriend(age 25) and I(23) have been together for about 2.5 years. Lately (the past 6 months) he's been getting WAAYY into partying all the time (cocaine, ecstasy, heavy drinking). I was partying with him a lot for the first about 4 months, very rarely anymore. He has a job where he works 2nd shift (I work 1st shift), so we only see eachother on the weekends...he also has to work most Saturdays, so really only see eachother saturday night and sunday. Problem is, now, I keep asking him if we can just spend the weekend together, just us. Every time he gets all pissed off and says "I only have one day off!! I have to go out and wind down!!" This has seriously been EVERY weekend since New Year's, only took a weekend off when he got his wisdom teeth out. He keeps saying that if he stays in he's just wasting his youth away. What is that supposed to mean? Won't it SHORTEN his life altogether if he keeps partying at this rate? He says he wants to go back to school, but won't do anything about it because he "doesn't know what he wants to go for". Is all this partying to avoid having to grow up and face the real world? Is all of this addiction? I just don't know what to do anymore. I feel neglected, he makes me feel like I'm not worthwhile. It hurts so much! PLEASE HELP!!
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