pioneer Posted June 15, 2006 Posted June 15, 2006 Iv been split with my ex for over 18 months, we were together for 5 1/2 years, shes moved on and brought a house with someone and is getting married next year. I havent spoken to her for over a year or seen her. but tonight as i got home, id had a few beers and decided to look at a website i knew she used to buy DVD's off. I was suprissed to see that the user name and password were the same as when we were together. I brought back a lot of memories and i decided to try her moblile number. Almost sure it would be changed i tried it on a withheld number. It was a big suprise when it started ringing and went to the answer phone. Even though it was on a different network than before, i tried it again, this time she picked up, i had no intention of talking to her and hung up after a few seconds. Iv been single since we split and shes really on my mind, she was in my life for so long it felt really strange to hear her voice again. I miss her so much, i really do want to speak to her, but im sure i would cause trouble and i dont think shed want it. I have hardly any female friends and she is the only person that understands me, im very tempted to either email or text her, ehat do i do?
Big_A Posted June 15, 2006 Posted June 15, 2006 http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t56954/ From your post I get the idea that you miss the contact and intimacy that she provided you. You don’t really miss her. You really need to evaluate your motivations for talking to her, especially since you are “sure you’d cause trouble” Go out and create new, happy memories that do not involve her. If you get yourself a crush on a new woman, you’ll be amazed how quickly you forget about your ex. Good luck
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