Ardon Posted June 14, 2006 Posted June 14, 2006 I've been dating this lovely girl for over 1 month now, we both like each other alot as far as i can tell. I was with her throughout her graduation and spend time with her family as well.. We spend time together on the beach, on my fathers boat late at night eating ice cream watching movies etc... We are pretty comfortable with each other, we hold each other and make out for hours... i will go as far as kissing her neck and holding my hands around her lower back or leg but thats as far as i will push things... she will put her arms around my neck and head and even sit on my lap and kiss me...we are both virgins.. iam completely content with where our relationship is right now, i don't need anything sexual but maybe she wants to? this is where i don't know what i should do... i don't want to push anything but maybe she wants me to make a bigger more pushing move? should i just keep going along and let her make a move or do i need to push the intamicy a little more? once again ive never done anything sexual with anyone and don't need to unless she wants to.. so how do i tell and what would you do? im 20, shes 18
Author Ardon Posted June 14, 2006 Author Posted June 14, 2006 one more thing... when we are in a romantic situation when kissing or making out, whatever the situation.. i have an erection and have been moving out of the way so she won't notice... is this the right thing to do or should i ignore it and let it make contact with her (fully dressed obviously) lol
AriaIncognito Posted June 14, 2006 Posted June 14, 2006 I dont think it's necessary to move it so that it won't come in contact with her. A woman, I'd think, would be happy that she was able to turn you on. The guy I am (was dont know) seeing gets one every time we kiss and isn't afraid for letting me know. I mean I guess at first he didn't draw attention to it, but he never made it so that I wouldn't be knowing of it's existence if I were to be close to him. It's natural. You're attracted to her, and being intimate, so I dont see the issue. As far as "pushing" the other stuff....that will come naturally, when you're ready. You shouldn't have to think about it really, so try to just go with the flow. Jennifer
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