crazy_grl Posted June 23, 2006 Posted June 23, 2006 I She's a kindergarten teacher. That's a comforting thought.
luvtoto Posted June 23, 2006 Posted June 23, 2006 Right when I started dating a new guy, my X calls me asking me how I was doing. (Basically, checking in on me to see if I was moving on yet) I told him that I just started seeing a new guy and we have a date tomorrow night. My X had his bestfriend follow us in a car that night on our date. He wanted to know what he looked like, everything we did, where we went, what time we got home... Later, a few months down the road, I started seeing my 'X' again. Not knowing anything about the stalking episode. We went out drinking with his bestfriend. His bf got drunk and started to spill the beans. You should have seen my x's face! He shut up rather quickly...but, I already heard it.
Guest Posted June 24, 2006 Posted June 24, 2006 Being stalked is horrible. I had an ex BF who used to follow me around town. He'd look for my car (it had a very distinctive bumper sticker) and he 'd just sit in his car, staring at my apartment for hours. I know this because he told me he did it. He'd call periodically to say, "I love you," and "I miss you" and really insane, bizarre stuff like "My therapist thinks you and I should get back together". He'd show up at my job and threaten male co-workers he thought were interested in me. He broke into my apartment one time and trashed it. Another time he started smacking me around because I didn't want to get back with him. Stupid me, I'd stopped by his apartment to return some things and we ended up having an argument because I didn't want to get back together. I finally had to call the cops on him. Things got really ugly and I was so happy when he disappeared off the face of the earth....for a while. Apparently, he got fired from his job for using drugs. He moved out of state. I didn't see him for a few years. Then one day he shows up at my job. HOW CREEPY IS THAT! He actually brought me a gift. I was so creeped out I was shaking. He said, " You don't look happy to see me," I told him my 'husband' was the company owner and would send a hit man to his house if he didn't beat it. THis was all fabricated, but I thought it might get him to leave. He left and I have not seen him in about 7 years now.
vi_pn_babe25 Posted June 25, 2006 Posted June 25, 2006 I've been stalked twice by 2 different people...in the same year! My ex bf started stalking me after I left him, like literally left without any notice. The reason was because he was the controlling jealous type and at the very end of our relationship it became worse. SO without any notice to him, I packed up and left while he was at work . Later that day he came to my house, tried to break in the front door, so I called the cops, especially since I didn't know if he had any weapon. The cops came within 5 minutes, threw him up against his car and frisked him and told him not to come near me again or he'd be arrested. Never saw or talked to him again, except 6 months later when I saw him at my work. Nothing happened, but I actually don't work there anymore, so to my understanding he doesn't know where I work now. The other guy was even crazier! I met him right after I broke up with my ex, so I told him that I just want to be friends and nothing more because I just got out of a relationship. Well he didn't want to take no for an answer so he called me CONSTANTLY on my cell and home phone number. He'd leave inappropriate messages on my home phone, so my parents could hear. I had to change my number a couple times, and my parents had to secure our home phone. I eventually went to the cops because he wasn't going to give up. After the cops called him, and told him that he might have to go to court, he pretty much stopped calling. It's been about 6 months since I last saw his number on my home caller ID, BUT he can try and block his number, so I don't answer any unknown or private numbers when the phone rings! Anyways, they were both pretty damn psycho but I'm glad it's finally over with!
Fun2BMe Posted June 25, 2006 Posted June 25, 2006 I've been stalked on several occassions. The worst was by a man I hardly knew but apparently he was upset I had not responded to his advances. It was a serious case in which he had intentions of killing me and was jailed. The others are more innocent in comparison. I also dated a guy who would stalk his ex wife. It was so bad that he started doing drive-bys of her house with me in the car. For instance, if we were returning from a night out, he'd go out of our way to drive past her house and would talk about her the rest of the way home:rolleyes:
been7077 Posted June 27, 2006 Posted June 27, 2006 I'm now having to look over my shoulder and carry a knife and other protection with me because of my friend's Stalker -bf. I do convince her to go with me to the police and file a report, but the cop there, a very young guy, will not take a battery report from her. He adds her being punched and shoved it to my incident report. Later that night she takes a call from the Stalker-bf on the cell phone that he gave her (an electronic leash) and the next day she says that she feels as if she has betrayed him. So, let's get this straight: he assaults you, attempts to kill me, and you feel you have betrayed him? Yes, she says. So what she has done is endorsed the violence against her and against me. I am going to call the police today to see if I can't formally sign a complaint and have him arrested. I have heard conflicting stories from serveral officers about whether or not I can do this now that the original paperwork is filed. I didn't do so immediately because she said it would add fuel to the fire. Mistake. I should just look at this as just letting nature take its course and having him beat her bloody and kill her, but I have known her for 18 years. She is in danger now and so am I. It won't go away and she doesn't want it to. However, I'm already a party to it because he thinks we are having some type of romance, and just because she is holding his hand now instead of taking punches from it won't chance the fact that he is on the hunt for me. What psycho problems keeps these lunatics staking the earth and destroying everything that isn't how they want it to be? Sick. Sick.
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