PerfectLee Posted June 13, 2006 Posted June 13, 2006 What do you think it means if your Significant Others cheat on you one relationship after another? What does that mean about you? Are you a pushover? Not sexy enough? What have your experiences been? **I've been cheated on in every past relationship, I'm in a happy, healthy one now, I'm just curious what everyone's thoughts are.**
norajane Posted June 13, 2006 Posted June 13, 2006 It means you are meeting and attracting men who cheat. I'd say find a new social circle (which it sounds like you have)!
rkman Posted June 13, 2006 Posted June 13, 2006 I agree. Take a step out of your own shoes and look at the people you entangle yourself with, the lifestyle you lead, the directions you take. If you surround yourself by idiots, then idiots will come knocking. I'm not trying to attack you or say that you are doing it all wrong, it's just a possiblity you may want to consider. Sometimes its useful to look at the lifestyles of other, different stereotypical groups of people, criticize that lifestyle and then step back and compare it to your own.
Author PerfectLee Posted June 14, 2006 Author Posted June 14, 2006 It means you are meeting and attracting men who cheat. I'd say find a new social circle (which it sounds like you have)! Yeah, now that I'm older and able to choose my friends more freely my relationships have been better. I don't even talk to anyone in high school any longer because like you said, they were just a bad social circle. Has anyone else had relationships where each person cheated on them?
Pink Amulet Posted June 14, 2006 Posted June 14, 2006 Can I just ask, did you ever forgive them and stay with them after being cheated on? If so, how did that work out, did they do it again?
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