lynni31 Posted June 13, 2006 Posted June 13, 2006 I am relatively new here , but I keep seeing nc.. can someone explain what the point of no contact is ? Is it to see if the person will come back to you ? or is just a way of letting go and moving on ? Are there rules to nc?
whichwayisup Posted June 13, 2006 Posted June 13, 2006 No contact is mostly for one who is trying to get over the other person. Sometimes NC is to make a point, to try and get that other person back...Like out of sight out of mind, they miss you enough, they'll come back into your life. Sometimes NC is the ONLY way to move on with life...Especially after a bad breakup. And then sometimes NC is done on purpose because one person really doesn't like the other person and wants to not ever see/talk to them again. The rules of NC is to stay in NC mode. PERIOD. Breaking NC is only going to hurt the person intiating NC. Hope this helps. Also, I'm sure if you look around in this section, or the coping section or do a search on NO CONTACT, atleast 10000000000000000000000000000 threads will come up about it.
timidity99 Posted June 13, 2006 Posted June 13, 2006 I don't believe in doing NC with my exes unless they specifically ask me to leave them alone. To me NC is out of respect for their wishes. It really doesn't do anything in terms of helping me heal from a break up. I find that my break ups are harder if I'm forced to do NC. It's just not a method I use unless the ex has requested that I leave her alone. Otherwise screw no contact. You do whatever you feel you need to do to heal from a break up. If NC works for you then fine but don't apply it like it's an absolute rule for everyone. I don't live by absolute rules written down in a book on what to do after a break up. I believe in listening to your heart instead of blindly following a rule book on relationships
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