Stunner Posted June 13, 2006 Posted June 13, 2006 I don't feel stupid, though. Recap: Met great guy a month and a half ago... Gave him my card only for business purposes Bumped into him again a little over three weeks ago We hit it off and talked all night Dated for three weeks before sex Hat stellar, mind blowing, three hour sex (which included lots of eye contact, intimacy, talk of next time..everything in future tense from HIM..nothing indicating no interest..met his daughter two days later and he kissed me in front of her and said, "talk to you soon"..no indication of lost interest. They stayed for over an hour. He also made a point to tell his little girl that they would be back.) My last message to him was last Wed. but haven't spoken since a week ago last Sat. Most said don't call some said do. I figured 5 days is long enough in case he lost his phone or a big emergency came up, his daughter had a problem..she has some health issues. I called his home line with my cell so he has no excuse of losing my number because he could save it on caller ID. My gut tells me I haven't been dumped but does tell me that something is up...so now wait another 10 days and then quit. Sound good? My message was, "Hi 'X' it's 'Z' I hope you had a great weekend..since I had a moment I thought I would try to catch up with you to touch bases...I hope everything is going well and you are welcome to call back at your convenience." Please advise...again. UGH
j.carsey Posted June 13, 2006 Posted June 13, 2006 The guy is also thinking "don't call, let her call" Pretty standard stuff. Don't let it end because of that kind of nonsense, both of you holding out for a call. There is no need for this game of chicken. Just try calling him again, when you reach him say you had a great time. If you try a few times over 10 days and can't reach him at all, that's weird then Until then relax
Author Stunner Posted June 13, 2006 Author Posted June 13, 2006 Thank you! That's what I thought too. I don't want a man who shudders when he sees my phone number pop up on caller ID. I want a MAN not a mouse. I made my intentions clear from the beginning...no labels, no lying, no game playing...what happens happens and if even THAT scares him off then he's not ready to handle a woman like me. I run two friggin' companies, my companies, am raising four kids on my own. I'm drop dead gorgeous, great in bed and although it may not seem like it from this post very nice....LOL Thanks again for your kind words...I really appreciate it!
j.carsey Posted June 13, 2006 Posted June 13, 2006 are you single LOL Yeah exactly a man should not be afraid when a beautiful woman who has a thing for him calls him up. I save myself a lot of trouble and avoid caller ID to begin with, so I have to pick up and deal with everyone phone call
Author Stunner Posted June 13, 2006 Author Posted June 13, 2006 LOL...Yes, I am single and looking for a no B.S. guy! No caller ID here either. I am unlisted and unpublished so only those close to me, or who I want close to me actually get my number. I'm pretty picky. Good luck finding your match!
Author Stunner Posted June 15, 2006 Author Posted June 15, 2006 bump...going out alone again Thurs....bet it won't stay that way.
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