runner Posted June 13, 2006 Posted June 13, 2006 i love myself. but most importantly, i love my closest friends and family. without them i am nothing. a good friend of mine just passed away. i know i loved him cos it hurts so bad to know i'll never see him again. never hesitate to tell those closest to you that you love them.
Author RarePearl Posted June 13, 2006 Author Posted June 13, 2006 I am happy for everyone who's happy, regardless of whether they're happy with someone or on their own. Sorry for assuming that single people are not happy in love... are they?
Author RarePearl Posted June 13, 2006 Author Posted June 13, 2006 i love myself. but most importantly, i love my closest friends and family. without them i am nothing. a good friend of mine just passed away. i know i loved him cos it hurts so bad to know i'll never see him again. never hesitate to tell those closest to you that you love them.So sorry for your loss, Runner. However, my question was; are you IN LOVE with someone; not do you love your kids, parents, siblings or pets.
Sand&Water Posted June 13, 2006 Posted June 13, 2006 However, my question was; are you IN LOVE with someone; not do you love your kids, parents, siblings or pets. How do you know when you're solely "in love" with someone? I don't think you can really know. It takes time. Because, I've been thinking a lot about a certain guy I know. He's on my mind quite frequently. I smile when I think of him. Does that constitute the falling in love notion? Right now, I'm not in love with anyone. I'm happy where I stand.
vampress1 Posted June 13, 2006 Posted June 13, 2006 Cool... Congrats.. Did you eat a piece from the top of your wedding cake ? Nah... the wedding party attacked it in a drunken stuper after the reception.
littlekitty Posted June 13, 2006 Posted June 13, 2006 I'm in love with SO and it's mutual! We're still falling more in love with every passing day. We have a great, healthy relationship. We're a team, and we support each other. And he's really hot....!! We're getting married next year, and we can't wait. We're looking forward to raising a family together and growing old and watching the grandkids together. I can't believe I finally found my prince.
Author RarePearl Posted June 13, 2006 Author Posted June 13, 2006 How do you know when you're solely "in love" with someone? I don't think you can really know. It takes time. Because, I've been thinking a lot about a certain guy I know. He's on my mind quite frequently. I smile when I think of him. Does that constitute the falling in love notion? Right now, I'm not in love with anyone. I'm happy where I stand.Well you're making a big deal out my simple question. You don't have to answer with YES or NO. You can say "I don't know" or "I am falling in love as I type" or "Not sure anymore" or "I love my spouse, but am not in love with them" or whatever your heart tells you. My point was only that it referred to a person you're in a relationship with or interested in or there is no such person in your life at this moment. It didn't refer to cats and dogs and relatives. My additional questions were if your love is returned and whether you're happy IN LOVE (not happy with your life overall).
Author RarePearl Posted June 13, 2006 Author Posted June 13, 2006 I can't believe I finally found my prince. I can't believe either! I mean, who could possibly love a hot'n'smart woman like yourself? I am so happy for you too.
Buttaflyy Posted June 13, 2006 Posted June 13, 2006 Me too! I..."We" are very much in love:love: :love: Even through trying times. We are still in love. Congrats LK!!!
Fallenstar Posted June 13, 2006 Posted June 13, 2006 My first/last real love was about 20 yrs ago. I still remember everything about her and the few special moments we had together (we were at school at the time). And I look forward to sharing a higher level of love with my SO.....when I find her
typical Posted June 14, 2006 Posted June 14, 2006 Love doesnt look good on me, I think. I take it too hard. I end up miserable and my own worst enemy.
ash8752 Posted June 14, 2006 Posted June 14, 2006 I am in love. It is mutual. We were good friends and have now been together for 14 months and live together. I thought i had been in love before but now i know what it really is and what it is really meant to be.
animeangel Posted June 15, 2006 Posted June 15, 2006 I'm sortof in love I think...And I'm not sure if the feeling is mutual anymore
paige367 Posted June 15, 2006 Posted June 15, 2006 i'm happy for everyone that is in love if that's what you want and are looking for, i'm just saying it's not the be all and end all to life. don't feel sorry for the rest of us...i can only speak for myself but for the most part, i'm pretty damned happy Yes, I totally agree. I'm happy, I'm complete, I don't need another person to consider my self whole. I'm in charge of making myself happy. I certainly don't neen anyone else to complete me. At least I think all of this when I'm alone...when I fall in love it's a different story. Gongrats to all who are in love...and gongrats to all who are not..yet
7on Posted June 15, 2006 Posted June 15, 2006 haha, love? I don't know. The girl I'm sorta with now - I can feel the chemistry and I definitely know there's potential - but I don't think it's love. We HAVE a relationship - I just don't know what kind. We make out, she's in Vienna and misses me, and she refers to me as dear or darling. Sometimes I do feel love towards her - random times. Like I'll be walking down the street and it'll hit me - but then I try to get back to my senses. Love can definitely scare the other off if she's not ready. So basically it all comes down to me waiting for her to make the first move ;-) So when she admits to loving me then I'll admit the same. I'm definitely in like though ;-)
Tim'sAngel Posted June 16, 2006 Posted June 16, 2006 I am in love for the first time in my life with my wonderful SO!! We have been together officially for 8 months and I've known him for over a year and a half. He is my heart and soul and I have never felt such love, chemistry, compatibility, acceptance, forgiveness, and loyalty in all my life!!
7on Posted June 16, 2006 Posted June 16, 2006 I think I pinpointed it. This girl is the first girl I'm completely 100% comfortable with. No hesitation about anything. All my past "flings" I 2nd guessed myself a lot - and this time I really just feel myself around her.
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