Art_Critic Posted June 13, 2006 Posted June 13, 2006 I seem to only stay in a R for 1.5 years...... 3 years max. Here's my number for when you leave this one 555-123-6969 Call me
a4a Posted June 13, 2006 Posted June 13, 2006 Here's my number for when you leave this one 555-123-6969 Call me You big teasing clown! You gave me another fake #! Last one you gave was 1- BIG- MAN- DICK YOU CLOWNS ARE ALL ALIKE!! Well I am into this one past my 1.5 limit.... perhaps that is why I am antsy about it
Art_Critic Posted June 13, 2006 Posted June 13, 2006 Well I am into this one past my 1.5 limit.... perhaps that is why I am antsy about it give this one a break.. that way you make it past the 3 year mark. And the number I gave you last time was good.... you messed up when you wrote it down 1- HUGE- CLOWN- DICK Is the number i gave you Ps.. I can tie it in knots like the balloons we use.. wanna see a weiner dog ?
a4a Posted June 13, 2006 Posted June 13, 2006 give this one a break.. that way you make it past the 3 year mark. Well wasn't that a "nice" rejection I just recieved...... Damn those clowns! I should have known better!
allina Posted June 13, 2006 Posted June 13, 2006 Is there a theme in all your past relationships? I know mine is that I keep getting cheated on. What the hell does that mean? That's something I have thought about, and I honestly don't see one
Art_Critic Posted June 13, 2006 Posted June 13, 2006 That's something I have thought about, and I honestly don't see one The only repeating theme I see is that they all end
overseas2004 Posted June 13, 2006 Posted June 13, 2006 First bf broke up because he gave me a (curable) STD Second bf we were together for six years and fought like cats and dogs until I dumped him. Third bf was long distance and he didnt want to live in America. Plus he got scared and ran from the seriousness of it all. Fourth bf, neglected to tell me he was married and a CIA agent. When I found out i was pregnant he left me. Fifth, current, who the f-- knows. He got scared of making a baby after he told me we were to make one. We even took AIDS tests and had unprotected sex. But of course, he pulled out the last minute. It has been a tough life....
ElroyJetz1 Posted June 14, 2006 Posted June 14, 2006 My last break up was nothing short of the Jerry Springer Show without the chairs. I lost 47 lbs and looked like I belonged living in Mogadishu. As time progressed I realized that it was lust not love. Life goes on!
Author PerfectLee Posted June 14, 2006 Author Posted June 14, 2006 I'm sorry overseas2004 it has been a tough life huh? Are you happy with your current? Do you guys think the break-ups get harder as you get older? maybe there's more of an expectation, maybe your heart hardens over time. What do you think?
allina Posted June 14, 2006 Posted June 14, 2006 Do you guys think the break-ups get harder as you get older? maybe there's more of an expectation, maybe your heart hardens over time. What do you think? Interesting question. I think it can go both ways. When we're young and naive it's easier to believe that it was going to last forever, that it was perfect and that you will never love again, so breakups can be really hard. As you get older you may become more invested, have bigger hopes and more complex issues that lead to breakups which also makes them hard.
Author PerfectLee Posted June 14, 2006 Author Posted June 14, 2006 Interesting question. I think it can go both ways. When we're young and naive it's easier to believe that it was going to last forever, that it was perfect and that you will never love again. Yes, thanks for putting my perspective into words allina. I think also, that after all the relationships I've had, that my heart has hardened a little and I don't trust as before, I have those damn tapes that play in my head (you know...the ones that go "You're not good enough", "Yeah right, you're not gonna cheat on me", "When are you gonna leave me?") <~~~Very hurtful, damaging tapes that used to be a lot worse, but I think we all have them.
ash8752 Posted June 14, 2006 Posted June 14, 2006 I am 24 and my longest relationship before my current one was 4 months. Other than that i had those relationships that are not exclusive but i had feelings and they were just really hard on the heart. I had my heart broken many times. Well, mainly in 3 relationships. One lasted 7 years, another 3 years and the last one was only 6 months. But now, i am glad i did what i did. I am with someone who wants to be in a relationship, who loves me and we've been together 14 months now and live together. I now know what real love is
overseas2004 Posted June 14, 2006 Posted June 14, 2006 Hey it has been tough. I am not happy with my current. We just broke up.
Isabella82 Posted June 15, 2006 Posted June 15, 2006 I'm glad everyone has had a lot, I was beginning to think I was the only one. I am 23.... 1. It was my first, at the age of 15 I thought I was in love. After about 3 months he hit me, so I left. Took me about a year to get over. 2. It was in high school, lasted 2 years, I caught him cheating so I left. It hurt, it was more of a habit but I know he was no good for me. I went off to college and he dropped out of HS 3. It was a friend with benefits for almost 1 year, he didn't want anything serious, I thought I could change his mind. Kept giving me mixed signals. Then right after I slept with him he made out with my best friend at a party right in front of me. I called it off. 4. It was the worst. Together 2 years, we had future plans to get married after college. He ended it out of nowhere. Still do not really know the reasons why, and I haven't talked to him since. Thought my heart would never mend. Now I am in another relationship after randomly dating for 1 year. I am happy but we have had our fair share of almost calling it quits. Hope I don't have many more, I seem to get attached and it takes me forever to get over. But its a part of life, we're not living in the 1950's anymore.
rkman Posted June 15, 2006 Posted June 15, 2006 1. I was 15, a dick and had no clue what life was about. I feel bad for that girl. Nevertheless it was a life lesson for self-improvement. 2. A 3 year relationship. I learned what love was, but with her it was only selfish love. She did the whole, I'm confused bit at the end, didn't tell me she was seeing another guy the few weeks leading up to the breakup so I told her where to shove it. 3. 4.5 years, was ready to put my s*** together to take the next steps. We lived together for 1.5 years, and got totally sucked into the capitalistic way of life. Depression followed by neglect, I regret my portion of the negativity but in the end it was a lesson that needed to be learned. She found a guy at work that made her feel happy, I let her make her own decision and in the end we agreed she should move out and sort herself out. 4. Current one with myself Being single has the advantage of doing your own thing your way Hope I don't have many more, I seem to get attached and it takes me forever to get over. But its a part of life, we're not living in the 1950's anymore. That's my weakness too I love relationships, even for the simple fact that it's never a waste of time because you always learn something about yourself and your personal needs.
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