nightcrawler Posted June 11, 2006 Posted June 11, 2006 Just went out with the girl i like at the gathering. But it didnt go as well as i planned it would. I just completely ignored her the whole time. The situation was that i havent eaten or had proper sleep for two days because of work plus that the fact that ive been wierding myself about my feelings towards her. Slowly she starts to ignore me as well. I did a lot of thinking and talking to my friends wife and i realized that i made the situation all wierd and now i have no problems talking to her at all. The problem is will she talk to me again or do something???? A friend is better than no friend
norajane Posted June 11, 2006 Posted June 11, 2006 You went out with her and ignored her the whole time? Yeah, that would make a girl step back from you. I don't know if she'll talk to you again. You might want to call her and apologize for ignoring her at the gathering.
Tim'sAngel Posted June 11, 2006 Posted June 11, 2006 The only thing you can really do is apologize and explain the situation and hope she understands. If not, you really can't blame her.
Author nightcrawler Posted June 11, 2006 Author Posted June 11, 2006 Hahaha I Guess I Really Fudged Up!!! I Dont plan to call her anytime soon thought. I just got myself straightened out and if i go too soon ill be a repeat all over again(probably). Well thanks.
Tim'sAngel Posted June 12, 2006 Posted June 12, 2006 Hahaha I Guess I Really Fudged Up!!! I Dont plan to call her anytime soon thought. I just got myself straightened out and if i go too soon ill be a repeat all over again(probably). Well thanks. Well jeez, don't you think you at least owe her an apology?
Author nightcrawler Posted June 12, 2006 Author Posted June 12, 2006 Yeah I do... but I want to tell her in person. Not through phone not through email.
Tim'sAngel Posted June 12, 2006 Posted June 12, 2006 Yeah I do... but I want to tell her in person. Not through phone not through email. OH ok, well I agree. I thought maybe you meant you weren't ever going to speak to her again. She may totally understand and want to go out again!And if you do go out, for the love of all that is holy, DON'T IGNORE HER!! lol
Art_Critic Posted June 12, 2006 Posted June 12, 2006 You could send her flowers.. and an apology maybe just something small.. one Flower and a card for being a cad
Sand&Water Posted June 12, 2006 Posted June 12, 2006 I'm glad to hear, you'll make it up to her. Poor girl. Talking to her, in person, is definately better than e-mail or text. Hopefully, this time around, you'll be keen on completing the mission.
gfto Posted June 12, 2006 Posted June 12, 2006 Nightcrawler, Was this a real date? It sounds like you just went with her to some sort of gathering, which doesn't count. You have to get her on a one-on-one date.
Author nightcrawler Posted June 13, 2006 Author Posted June 13, 2006 No it wasnt a real date. But i got a huge ass problem. The girl wont answer my call anymore. i jus called her today twice and second time i just left a message. Dont know what to do.
Tim'sAngel Posted June 13, 2006 Posted June 13, 2006 No it wasnt a real date. But i got a huge ass problem. The girl wont answer my call anymore. i jus called her today twice and second time i just left a message. Dont know what to do. Theres nothing really to do. Just wait. What did you say in the message? Did you apologize?
Author nightcrawler Posted June 13, 2006 Author Posted June 13, 2006 Unfortunately no. I just said i had some movies for her kid that i wanted to drop off. I just want to apologize in person. Althought i will pass them on to her best friend who is my friends wife. And have her mention about my bbq party. It not till the middle of july but hopefully it will simmer down abit.
Tim'sAngel Posted June 13, 2006 Posted June 13, 2006 Unfortunately no. I just said i had some movies for her kid that i wanted to drop off. I just want to apologize in person. Althought i will pass them on to her best friend who is my friends wife. And have her mention about my bbq party. It not till the middle of july but hopefully it will simmer down abit. Well, if I were her, I'd feel like "oh well he doesn't even see that he did anything wrong, so why should I want to talk to a guy who thinks its ok to ignore me" but thats JMO. I understand you wanting to be face to face, but let me tell you, if she thinks that your a dead beat, she aint gonna call back
Author nightcrawler Posted June 22, 2006 Author Posted June 22, 2006 Back In The Game, Now I Got Two People to Choose
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