Guest Posted June 11, 2006 Posted June 11, 2006 I ve known this girl for 3 weeks and been talking to her and she gives me this feelings sometimes that she might see me more than a friend(being close to me alot, touching etc.) i think shes cute and i would be willing to go out with her but i think that she still likes her ex. I wanna know what she feels about me this early on of our relationship because if she doesnt see me as what i see her or maybe she still likes her ex, i could stop being that close to her so i wont get hurt later on......how would i find out that she might like me more than her ex...or if she even sees me like that... should i ask her str8 up what she thinks about me or would that mess everythin up?
norajane Posted June 11, 2006 Posted June 11, 2006 Wow, you want all these guarantees before you make a move, after only 3 weeks of knowing her. Kiss her. Next time she touches you, or you are close, kiss her. If she kisses you back, she likes you. Then have fun without overanlayzing it. If you try to kiss her and she gets all wierd and uncomfortable, or says she just wants to be friends, then back off. Better yet, back way off and don't try to be friends - if you try to stay just friends but want more, you're guaranteed to get hurt.
Guest Posted June 12, 2006 Posted June 12, 2006 Wow, you want all these guarantees before you make a move, after only 3 weeks of knowing her. Kiss her. Next time she touches you, or you are close, kiss her. If she kisses you back, she likes you. Then have fun without overanlayzing it. If you try to kiss her and she gets all wierd and uncomfortable, or says she just wants to be friends, then back off. Better yet, back way off and don't try to be friends - if you try to stay just friends but want more, you're guaranteed to get hurt. i guess that would give me a good answer plus i need to grow some (balls) for that one lol
ronnieromance Posted June 12, 2006 Posted June 12, 2006 Wanna test it without potentially being dissed? Make a profile on a dating site like webdate, and next conversation you have, slip in a comment about how much fun you had in the chat rooms. If she seems indifferent, she probably wants to be friends. If she shows a reaction, take another small step in guaging her interest. -R-
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