Fun2BMe Posted June 11, 2006 Posted June 11, 2006 I think Tim'sAngel is right. Instead of this guy attempting to understand why he abhor's these women so much, he reduces it to name calling. I think it threatens his manhood that these women might look at him and realize he sucks in bed, or that they might think he has a small penis. His self-esteem is so small that he imagines that women with some experience will laugh at his feeble attempts at intercourse. He probably feels that if he gets a woman who's had less sex than him, then he won't have to be perform well in order to impress her. But he's finding it hard to find a woman who's had less then two partners in her life, so he keeps looking for younger and younger woman to date. Only to find out that everyone he meets has had more sex then he has. Which in turn causes him to feel even less of a man. So he calls these women whores, while secretly admiring the men who bagged them. Wishing he could be like them, but not having the confidence to pull it off. Then again, I could be wrong. Maybe he just wants someone who's values and upbringing are more like his own. But I don't think he'd be so vehement about the others if he didn't harbor some kind of resentment toward them. They didn't do anything against him. So why would he hate them so much unless it was because they made him feel like less of a man? As always, you nailed the point Walk. That's cool if he wants an inexperienced girl for religious or personal reasons, but if he is going to call sexually active girls, which is pretty much the entire adult female population minus a few percentage, degrading names and look down at them while thinking he's above them and better, then he has a problem and is not going to get a sympathetic ear. He is fishing for younger and younger girls, "barely legal" lol. Then takes them to the mall and does childish dates only to be disappointed that even their vaginas are getting penises in them when he's not participating in the contribution of those numbers. And he goes back and forth. One moment it's his choice, he's been brought up the right way (rolling my eyes). The next, he slightly recognizes he may be sheltered to a fault and then it's convenient for him to blame his parents, that THEY don't think it's safe for him to drive, THEY'RE the ones too conservative. The next moment he sees that type of upbringing ideal and wonders why girls raiesed under that tyranical closed minded ruling have been stronger than he has and have pulled away to develop their independence, sexual relationships and other grown up things. He then becomes outraged that he's older and still stunted and less experienced than the young ones he's dating, who brought up in a similar upbringing as him, have been strong enough to not let it deter them from their own destiny. He calls them whores and hates them because they are doing what he doesn't have the balls to do, while he still holds onto his mommy's apron strings.
LexiB Posted June 11, 2006 Posted June 11, 2006 I guess Joel has jumped ship on yet another one of his threads
ronnieromance Posted June 12, 2006 Posted June 12, 2006 Dude, you can get on a site like webdate and make it one of the first things you ask her. That way, you're behind a computer and don't have to worry about being smacked. LOL -R-
j.carsey Posted June 12, 2006 Posted June 12, 2006 any of you guys ever met any girls off the net. wow so far i met like 5 but not all at once. last 2 where just complete wackos. my question is this:where do u these days find a decent , non whorish, non-slept with like 20 guys, had not had one nighters and had not had a lot of guys who were just one nighters. You are exaggerating, and I know exactly where you're coming from but the problem with your line of thinking is these girls are not wackos, whores or dirty at all. They are just normal. I used to think only bad girls do stuff like this, reality is virtually every girl has flings, drunken sexually charged encounters, and other inappropriate relationships (much older men, etc). So take note that this is the "norm". It takes a while to get your head around this, but it's the truth and everyone -- the girls I knew in highschool, my girlfriends, my sister, my friend who works at a nunnery (I kid you not) have similar sexual histories in varying degrees. But while you're sitting there thinking these girls are too dirty for you, everyone else is dating them and the girls are having a good time.
alphamale Posted June 12, 2006 Posted June 12, 2006 I guess Joel has jumped ship on yet another one of his threads yeah LEXIB....I'm thinking JOEL is another regular poster's alter-ego. JOEL is used to send us on these wild-goose-chases
Sand&Water Posted June 12, 2006 Posted June 12, 2006 I'm thinking JOEL is another regular poster's alter-ego. JOEL is used to send us on these wild-goose-chases This is not the first time, joel, has entrapped us for a roller-coaster ride. In any case, I think you need to reassess your grading scheme joel. In almost every thread you've posted on LS, I've noticed the same pattern of thought and behaviour. There are potential women, out there, who abide by certain standards. You just have to go out there with a positive set-of-mind, and understand that a woman with similar interests as yours does exist. Good luck.
LexiB Posted June 12, 2006 Posted June 12, 2006 yeah LEXIB....I'm thinking JOEL is another regular poster's alter-ego. JOEL is used to send us on these wild-goose-chases Ok Alpha jig is up ~ it's you isn't it? I cld picture you setting up something like this!
Cecelius Posted June 12, 2006 Posted June 12, 2006 I'm not sure he called anyone anything -- he said "whorish" -- perhaps that is a crass shorthand for wanton behavior that he should drop, but then a lot of kids use all kinds of crass language. I also don't think he judged anyone -- he just doesn't want to date a girl with that much of a body count, for which there are lots of perfectly decent reasons. He also didn't ask to be judged based on his inexperience -- another piece of male socialization that contributes to the double standard. I think in the end, he was just looking for a way to avoid the wacky people he was meeting. Lastly, a girl with a 20-plus body count in the late teens/early 20s is pretty high. If she's not going to pick and choose who gets in, why is he going to rush in?
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