Woggle Posted June 10, 2006 Posted June 10, 2006 Right now a friend of mine is going througha divorce which is ugly to put it mildly and it has me scared s***less over my upcoming marriage. Many of the over the top anti-woman posts are inspired by what he is ghoing through. I really want to be there for him but I start wondering then if my fiance will ever do this. Does anybody else have a situation like this?
amaysngrace Posted June 10, 2006 Posted June 10, 2006 Right now a friend of mine is going througha divorce which is ugly to put it mildly and it has me scared s***less over my upcoming marriage. Many of the over the top anti-woman posts are inspired by what he is ghoing through. I really want to be there for him but I start wondering then if my fiance will ever do this. Does anybody else have a situation like this? No Woggle...most people don't think that someone else's relationship, whether it be bad or good, will have a direct impact on their own. Why on Earth are you planning to marry??
Sand&Water Posted June 10, 2006 Posted June 10, 2006 I've never been in such a situation. However, does that mean if a friend of yours horribly involved himself in a car accident, and suffered many injuries from it then you'll remove yourself, at any cost, from driving a car? You're not confident enough in your relationship, that the slightist mishaps cause you to flip-over. This can cause serious traumas in the near future. I'd watch out for divorce, as you say.
Tim'sAngel Posted June 10, 2006 Posted June 10, 2006 Right now a friend of mine is going througha divorce which is ugly to put it mildly and it has me scared s***less over my upcoming marriage. Many of the over the top anti-woman posts are inspired by what he is ghoing through. I really want to be there for him but I start wondering then if my fiance will ever do this. Does anybody else have a situation like this? Ok Wog, no bashing. I really want to respond to this because through all your bulls***, I really think you want to believe you have found love and you want to be happy with someone. I have had negitive friends and I've been the negitive friend. It is good you want to be there for him, but hunny he is putting all this crap in your head!! Just because he is going through a rough time doesn't mean you will too!! Sometimes, you just have to put the friendship aside or on hold if it is causing a negitive affect on your relationship. If you really love your fiancee, you won't let others trouble influence you. Negitivity is contageous. It's like a flue. If you stay around it long enough, you will catch it. Same goes for positiveness (is that a word?) Contrary to what you may think, there are some beautiful women out there inside and out that want a loving relationship just as much as you. You sound like a weak person, and I'm not saying that in a mean sense, I am somewhat weak in some areas myself, and I have to be careful who I am around. Who is more important Wog, your fiancee or what your friend thinks? I am very sorry he is going through such a horrible divorce, and I hope the best for him. I really hate seeing that kind of stuff, but it really doesn't happen to everyone! If you don't stop listening to your friends negitive advice you will always be wondering and never be happy and fully able to trust your fiancee, and she sounds lovely!! Don't you think she deserves better? I think you do
Author Woggle Posted June 10, 2006 Author Posted June 10, 2006 I think you are right Tim'sAngel and I do apologize for some of the personal insults against you in another thread. I went over the line and I am sorry.
Tim'sAngel Posted June 10, 2006 Posted June 10, 2006 I think you are right Tim'sAngel and I do apologize for some of the personal insults against you in another thread. I went over the line and I am sorry. Awww Woggy!!! ::hugs:: I'm sorry too. I really really hope the best for you and fiancee!! Just hang in there and you know you always have LS to come to when your feeling cold feet. And I swear, we are not all bad. I love my SO with all my heart more than I've loved anyone. There isn't anything I wouldn't do for that man, he has done so much for me! I know there are other women out there like me!! Some of us are pigs, but that goes for men and women. But some of us really do have alot of love
Outcast Posted June 10, 2006 Posted June 10, 2006 You have to realize that women are not Borg. They are all DIFFERENT.
Tim'sAngel Posted June 10, 2006 Posted June 10, 2006 You have to realize that women are not Borg. They are all DIFFERENT. Borg? Like the bad dude on Toy Story? Oh wait no that was Zorg... my bad
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