x.Utopian.Dream.x Posted June 9, 2006 Posted June 9, 2006 [COLOR=#333333]Ok well. I've explained in a previous post about someone who I like kept asking me who I fancied, and in the end I told him it was him. We swapped numbers and decided to get to know each other but then started not talking to me when I was online, etc. So I starting thinking he wasn't interested and I was v. confused so I ended up asking him straight out. Heres how it went: [/COLOR] Me: u know the other week we said we'd get to kno each other, well do u want to or not? id like to but if u dnt have no interest then jus say and ill be fine with it. Him: well yeh course get to no each other, but ive been realy busy recently havent had time Me: ahh ok thats fine then. if uv been busy. jus wanted to kno if u really did or not. was a bit confused. well when ur not busy anymore then u can tlk to me more if u want to. hope ur all ur exams went ok xx Him: sorry Him: didnt mean to confuse you What do you think? Do you think its the truth to just some excuse? Any opinions I will be grateul for. xx
amaysngrace Posted June 9, 2006 Posted June 9, 2006 He's probably BUSY. I exchanged #s with a guy about a week and a half ago and he called that night. I still haven't called him back but have been meaning to, to let him know he's on my mind, but haven't because I've been BUSY. It happens.
Carlthecoffeeaddict Posted June 9, 2006 Posted June 9, 2006 im in a very similar situation, where someone im interested in is very busy, and I can respect that. You have to not make assumptions as to the intent of what the person really thinks of you. If he is busy, then let him be, he will come to you when and if he is into you. Don't be needy by needing validation from him, seek it from yourself.
littlekitty Posted June 9, 2006 Posted June 9, 2006 Sounds like he was doing Exams! I'd say that was likely to keep him pretty busy...! It happens. Be patient!!
Sevenmack Posted June 11, 2006 Posted June 11, 2006 On this, I must disagree. I've never been too busy to at least stop by and hook up with a woman I was seeing. Hell, I had a deadline for a major project coming up and still managed to get together with one of my exes when we were still dating. The lady I'm seeing is meeting with her sorority tomorrow evening and still found time to hook up with me afterwards. On a Sunday night, when you have to get ready for the first day of the work week. There really isn't any such thing as being too busy to meet up with a woman or man in whom you're really interested. Period. Especially men; any chance to be with a woman and the accompanying benefits (kissing, sex, and the like). Chances are, Utopian, that you're guy is interested in women other than you. So ditch his number and start seeing other people and if he calls you back, then you'll know what the real story is.
Lishy Posted June 11, 2006 Posted June 11, 2006 I agree that there is no such thing as too busy Too busy (IMHO) means not that interested! No one could tell me they where just too busy! Its BS!
Author x.Utopian.Dream.x Posted June 18, 2006 Author Posted June 18, 2006 UPDATE! He asked me whether I wanted to come to the pub with him yesterday! I had to turn him down though because I couldn't go but I told him I'd go another time. Whatcha think?x
TerryTeardrop Posted June 18, 2006 Posted June 18, 2006 I think you should have said you was too busy lol
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