What Not To Do If She Dumps You

[Lollie72]

ji cant figure out the PM thing.. too lazy just email if you want.

 

[email protected]

 

I cannot figure it out, it's not like other sites set up the same!

[Lollie72]

I am guilty of 8 and 9. I tried talking to her friends to find out what happened, but not really to win their support. Also, I sent her flowers to her work on her birthday. Is that an exception?

 

Or just as we that have Canadian influenced accents say, "the bo'ot?"

 

Lollie/from MN originally

[daphne]

Sorry Don/imperial,

 

I meant donpepote...

[donpepot]

Don,

 

Can you enable private messages so I can write to you? Very good post by the way.

 

D

thanx, anyway email me at dtoy@punk.ws..

[the observer]

i did this things..damn i wish i read this before...

[the observer]

Here's a list of what NOT to do if your girlfriend is

breaking up with you.

 

 

1) Do NOT fight with her. Fighting ALWAYS creates

tension and kills attraction. Fighting with a woman is useless.

Even if you win the argument, you will still lose the war.

 

2) Do NOT try to use logic to show her why she should

come back to you. Love is based on FEELINGS, not logic. No

matter how brilliant your logic is, she's still going to leave

you.

 

3) Do NOT reassure your ex that you have "changed" so

things will be "different from now on". It's like trying to

bail water out of a sinking boat. It won't work. The hole is

still there and your words are not going to mend it.

 

4) Do NOT keep telling her you love her. She won't

care. All a woman cares about is how much SHE loves YOU...not

the other way around!)

 

5) Do NOT beg her to come back. The more you beg, the

more she will ignore you.

 

6) Do NOT try to make her feel guilty about leaving you.

(Examples: "I can't work without you." and "Don't break up

with me during exam period...") It won't work. It will only

make her DREAD being with you even more.

 

7) Do not act depressed so they will feel bad for you.

Sympathy does NOT equal ATTRACTION!

 

8) Do NOT talk to her friends to win their support. All

she cares is how SHE fees about you. Even if her friends love you,

they can't make her love you forever. External pressure never

lasts longer. If your girl decides to stay with you, her motivation

has to come from WITHIN.

 

9) Do NOT spend money on gifts and flowers for her. You

can't buy her heart back with money.

 

10) Do NOT push her into getting back with you. The more

you push, the more she will PULL AWAY.

 

These are the most common mistakes guys make during a

breakup. Trust me, you don't want to do ANY of these things.

If you do, I can guarantee you your relationship will be doomed.

You probably won't even get a chance to kiss your girlfriend

goodbye, let alone get her back.

 

damn i did 234 and 10..i wish ive seen this before..o hope its not too late

[Teacher's Pet]

Me too....

 

I wish I wasn't a perfect example of how to suck.

 

I really feel like crap now.

 

But at least it woke me up.

[sirjay]

Every man who wants his girl to respect him should listen to this track, especially in a breakup/reconciliation situation. What goes on in your head is cool, and tell it to anyone as long as SHE doesn't find out. A little vunerability and sensitivity is great but i think women want to see control and strength overall.

 

The lyrics are harsh as hell but she sings it so sweet. Every time you get weak and might lose face in her eyes, listen:

 

 

 

AMY WINEHOUSE

Stronger Than Me

 

 

[the observer]

damn good thread

[donpepot]

Sad but true..but thats how it works...guys cant rely on anyone but themselves...

[Pink Amulet]

"but you my lady boy"

 

I'd say so...

[whir]

just want to ask ..does flirting with other girls(make her see it)..counts as good points for reconciliation or it will just push her away?

[Pink Amulet]

Not for me! It would be make me think him sad and pathetic for acting in such a way.

[thekhris]

agreed..if she cought your intention... your doomed... find other girl but not bcoz you just want her to be jealous

[Mary3]

Pussy is power...

 

And it always will be

[Mary3]

do you have a pussy ALPHA? no.... Hence i have pussy power.

 

But guys have penis power which is cannot, in my opinion, be replicated!

 

Pussy power FAR outweighs Penis power

[Mary3]

until the man realizes that theres so much more pussy out there than the one being offered....

 

Yes but men realize thats its ALWAYS easier for a woman to get laid......

[Mary3]

I seem to think this could be applicable to women as well.

 

Yes the OP's orginal post can apply for women as well. How not to look pathetic in a break up

[Mary3]

Guest;

 

Its is sad yeah.

 

I simply always thought, hey i love this girl so much. Be right to her, show her she's special to you. Make her feel good about herself.

 

Turns out you have to pretend and be a bastard really.

 

Show her you like her but could leave at anytime.... ie she aint that special.

 

ITS STUPID! and i feel I may not hold women in as higher regard as i used to now. It saddens me. I just wish i was wrong about all this, but it seems its wat everyone is saying.

 

 

Thats very sad it has come to this in our world. Games played. Who's got the most power. I just wish it were the way it used to be. Life was easier 10 years ago

[Mary3]

my best advice for all you vader haters out there is take a laxative bitch.

 

no seriously, if you have a broken heart take a lax.

 

I bet you wont be thinking about love, at least for a little while

 

Your only worry will be if you have enough toilet paper at hand..

[thekhris]

Pussy is power...

nah... pussy power only has effects on desprate guys... good qulaity guys chooses good pussy... and i think pussy power last only antil shes 27 or somthing.. confident and good qulaity 45 year old guys can still screw 19 year old(hb.9)models..but i dont think 45 year old woman can screw a normal 19year old(hb.9)male model...guys are ageless..pussy power soon runs out...a guy can scream to the world that i screw 2,000 good looking pussy's and be proud but a woman cant scream to the world that THERE ARE 2000 guys who pork me and be proud...lolz

[Mary3]

nah... pussy power only has effects on desprate guys... good qulaity guys chooses good pussy... and i think pussy power last only antil shes 27 or somthing.. confident and good qulaity 45 year old guys can still screw 19 year old(hb.9)models..but i dont think 45 year old woman can screw a normal 19year old(hb.9)male model...guys are ageless..pussy power soon runs out...a guy can scream to the world that i screw 2,000 good looking pussy's and be proud but a woman cant scream to the world that THERE ARE 2000 guys who pork me and be proud...lolz

 

I don't know why you think it can't be possible for a younger man to want an older woman ...you have more to learn in life

[Diver012]

I don't know why you think it can't be possible for a younger man to want an older woman ...you have more to learn in life

 

Its about quality to me, not quantity. My last Ex was 4 years older than me. I was in love with her, not her hair, not her boobs, not her ass, her.

[thekhris]

I don't know why you think it can't be possible for a younger man to want an older woman ...you have more to learn in life

i did not say "older woman"..i said "45 year old female"...

lolz... really need to say somthing just to get away with it huh?lolz

[whir]

if your ex lets say miss you and calls you and ask you to have sex with her..is it a good chance for reconcilitaion if i agreed or ill just giving her a satisfaction,,for never looking back to our relationship?