shyguyinluv Posted June 9, 2006 Posted June 9, 2006 I know this girl for about 2 years know and I have been talking to her now for a while. I'm very interested in her. The problem is that I'm very shy and I have no clue how to keep a conversation going. I can see her showing interests in me but when im around her i feel extremely shy because I'm really attracted to her and don't know how to show interest back. I want to be able to approach her in a romantic way. When we get acquainted, how are some ways I can show or tell her that im interested? What are some ways I can tell her that i love her? When do I tell her my feelings toward her? Very often when I'm talking to her, we would be able to talk about something we have in common and have a conversation, but when I run out of things to say we would get this really uncomfortable awkward silence. When and how can i open up to her and get really romantic with her? Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
norajane Posted June 10, 2006 Posted June 10, 2006 Well, first thing...don't tell her you love her right away! You barely know each other! Start out by flirting with her. Keep it simple since you're shy: lots of eye contact when you're talking with her, smiles, maybe a genuine compliment now and then. When you talk with her, ask her about herself - and listen to what she says. The listening part is very important as you'll start to learn who she is and what kind of sense of humor she has and what she likes to do and what kinds of things she thinks about. It's usually pretty easy to carry on a coversation with someone if you are genuinely interested in knowing who they are. Keep asking questions and relate her answers to some things about yourself, too. After a few conversations, feel free to ask her out for coffee. Be specific, something like: I'd love to continue this conversation. I have some time at 3 - can I take you out for coffee tomorrow? Good luck!
Guest Posted June 11, 2006 Posted June 11, 2006 Hello I can say if shy just breath and let your shoulder's relax make a mental note of how she look's at you and smile's. A flower each time you two meet or a hug but respect her , listen to her , support her in every way any small thing you can do to help her , protect her and to love her will add up in her heart. It may seem small to you but to her it make's the world to her. Hope i could help get back if you need more thank's
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