GoodAndBad Posted June 9, 2006 Posted June 9, 2006 okay...jsut so you all understand where I'm coming from..... I havn't been dating the guy I'm with for long, and shortly after we "hooked up" he had to leave for another Provience to start building his house (2.5 hours away). I really like this guy and think this relationship could go far, it's just really hard starting a relationship out as a "long distance" relationship......anyways.... we talk on the phone every night...and well....have phone sex. Only thing is, I'm not really playing with myself...he thinks I am, but I'm not.... I feel bad for misleading...well, lieing, to him. But I think it's much easier/faster for a guy to get off like that then a girl. And it's not like I don't play with myself...I'd be the biggest lier if I said I didn't....but it's only when I'm "in the mood" and want to get off...or when the guy I'm with wants me to. So, do I tell him that I'm not really playing with myself...or just leave it the way it is....and just keep on "faking" it?
Tim'sAngel Posted June 9, 2006 Posted June 9, 2006 I've done this before. Kinda made me chuckle. Here is what I used to do. I would start playing w/myself, without telling him, for awhile before any sex talk started up so that when we did start getting into the mood, I would be ready for action. You don't have to tell him you didn't really get off. I would never suggest faking an orgasm during actual sex, but lets face it, "fantasy" is the theme of phone sex because, well your not really having sex right? But it is a lot more fun when you both get off, just really hard to time it right. So try what I suggested, start "playing" beforehand, wait until you are ready, then start the dirty talk. Good luck!!
Author GoodAndBad Posted June 9, 2006 Author Posted June 9, 2006 Thanks Angel..thought of doing that, I will def give it a try. And The whole dirty talk thing...did it tonight finially!! It worked out great!!! We both got off ...and together...was awesome! Only problem is now.... now that he knows I'll do this for him...even thought to me it was kinda hard....there is no stopping us.....although, not sure if thats really a problem!! lol But now, god knows what he'll have me/us do next!! can't wait to see!!! I know I have a few things I liked to try!!! lol
Tim'sAngel Posted June 9, 2006 Posted June 9, 2006 I'm so glad everything worked out!! Sounds like you've pretty much got the dirty talk thing figured out, which it isn't very hard. I love how excited you are to turn him on!! Do you know how many guys have fallen in love with you
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