Final Heaven Posted June 8, 2006 Posted June 8, 2006 Say you like this girl alot and she knows u like her alot. You ask her 1 day to be your steady and she says no due to reason still can't let go of her past with her ex. Still you 2 became friends and eventually 2 1/2 months later she tells you that she is waiting for her ex to say YES to her on her birthday and if he doesn't everyone whos been after and waiting for her would get a shot at things with her including you. What would you do? Advice appreciated.
elijahBailey Posted June 8, 2006 Posted June 8, 2006 Move on. She's takin' you for a ride. Have a little respect for yourself. I've seen girls do that all the time. The end result is always the same. You ain't gonna get the girl. She'll hold on to you for as long as possible until the right dude (not you) comes along, and then she's gone.
dgiirl Posted June 8, 2006 Posted June 8, 2006 If you were the right one for her, then i dont think her ex would even be in the picture. If you want, wait, but I doubt it will go anywhere.
Pyro Posted June 8, 2006 Posted June 8, 2006 Say you like this girl alot and she knows u like her alot. You ask her 1 day to be your steady and she says no due to reason still can't let go of her past with her ex. Still you 2 became friends and eventually 2 1/2 months later she tells you that she is waiting for her ex to say YES to her on her birthday and if he doesn't everyone whos been after and waiting for her would get a shot at things with her including you. What would you do? Advice appreciated. You are her plan B, the second choice. Have some respect for yourself and forget about her. Try and meet someone who will put you first.
catgirl1927 Posted June 8, 2006 Posted June 8, 2006 I can't believe a man would actually put up with that nonsense. I can't believe any PERSON would. "If this guy doesn't want me, I'll give you an audition. No promises, though. My pu$$y is PRIME, you may not make the cut. Bring your wallet." What a bitch, forget her.
Carlthecoffeeaddict Posted June 8, 2006 Posted June 8, 2006 thats right- -you're wasting time on someone with an overflated ego -even if she was with you, she'll audition other friends to be with her -don't waste your time. -don't dwell on her -realize girls can be dumb -girls can act like paris hilton and think the world owes them red carpet treatment b/c they have a <> -be an ALPHA MALE, drop her, say NEXT!
typical Posted June 8, 2006 Posted June 8, 2006 eventually 2 1/2 months later she tells you that she is waiting for her ex to say YES to her on her birthday and if he doesn't everyone whos been after and waiting for her would get a shot at things with her including you. Inflated sense of importance and self esteem....probably due to the hoards of drooling mindless idiots swarming in droves around her who she has told the same thing to.... You are her plan B, the second choice--Riddler Your not even her Plan Q....in fact, you arent even in "the plan"....her plan is to get as many halfwits together as possible drooling and fantizing after her and string them along... I can't believe a man would actually put up with that nonsense. I can't believe any PERSON would. "If this guy doesn't want me, I'll give you an audition. No promises, though. My pu$$y is PRIME, you may not make the cut. Bring your wallet." What a bitch, forget her.---catgirl1927 :lmao: Move on. She's takin' you for a ride. Have a little respect for yourself. I've seen girls do that all the time. The end result is always the same. You ain't gonna get the girl. She'll hold on to you for as long as possible until the right dude (not you) comes along, and then she's gone. EB Bang on.... So have I!
whichwayisup Posted June 8, 2006 Posted June 8, 2006 Back off and leave her be. If she is interested enough in you, make her chase you and prove SHE is worthy of your time and energy.
basscatcher Posted June 8, 2006 Posted June 8, 2006 You are her plan B, the second choice. Have some respect for yourself and forget about her. Try and meet someone who will put you first. I could take this advice also. I tell myself this all the time. Who would put me first. lmost every man I've met has put me second. I've always been 2nd runner up. Never first... It sucks man! IT SUCKS.
Carlthecoffeeaddict Posted June 8, 2006 Posted June 8, 2006 it does suck but trust me women have the same thinking ok? not like you guys are innocent angels lol
Pyro Posted June 9, 2006 Posted June 9, 2006 I could take this advice also. I tell myself this all the time. Who would put me first. lmost every man I've met has put me second. I've always been 2nd runner up. Never first... It sucks man! IT SUCKS. It sure does suck. You just need to take your time when you meet someone. try to not fall for them too quickly. Get to know them in all ways before you let your feelings get involved.
Author Final Heaven Posted June 11, 2006 Author Posted June 11, 2006 So I decided to take the advice you guys gave.Thanks alot I might say. On the stroke of midnight which she gave me a miss call and I called her back,then she said if she hadn't call I would have forgotten it was her birthday, then came a topic of presents; got her a bracelet nothin chic though, because at the way things are going I figured why waste money on someone like her. Anyway she started saying things like I wouldn't go all the way over to her place to deliver her the present... in the end what did you know I did. She was shocked and she kept asking me why I would do something crazy like this. Why ? why does she keep saying that damn word "WHY" when she already know I like her. A part of me just say spend the last few moments of happy times before I decide to forget about her. Later in the morning her classmates celebrated her birthday in college during class she calls me out she offered me a piece of cake we talked abit and then she started to get all playful. I wasn't really into the mood because I was gonna ask her if she really meant what she said before and if I was important to her. So I asked her and she said yeah she meant what she said and I was important to her right now as a friend. I was really dissapointed, but still I kept a smile on and say ok bye bye, and I just went off. Later on that evening she came on msn and asked me whats wrong? I ask her why? She said she was worried that something might happen to me. Then I said it's ok I ain't dead yet, and then there was total silence and she just went offline. Why does she do all that? Just when I thought I just wanna forget about her and move on she comes back in a caring mood. Anyway its been like 2 days since I saw or called her and she hasn't called either,not even a word on msn even if I saw her online. She hasn't call either so... Oh well actually I just don't know what to do now so I decided to type something to keep myself occupied. Sorry for the all the RANTING.... then again thanks to all who contirbuted their opinions.
catgirl1927 Posted June 11, 2006 Posted June 11, 2006 She'd come back acting all caring because she wants to keep you on the leash. Man, some girls can be so mean. I never understood it, I would never have treated someone like that. I guess I learned from my time as a fat, dumpy little nerd that no matter how pretty you are, if you're a huge bitch, even though everyone flocks around you they don't really like or respect you. What she'll realize is, age is a funny thing, and sometimes all it takes is a few pounds and a tan and suddenly all the boys are a lot more interested in that smart girl with a nice personality who is now just as hot as you are. Anyway, you're doing the right thing. I wouldn't tell her off or anything. I just wouldn't ever be available to her. You need to find a nice girl who doesn't get her thrills by using and hurting other people.
alphamale Posted June 11, 2006 Posted June 11, 2006 What would you do? I would run for the hills...and then after I came back down I'd try to find another woman.
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