Mustache Posted June 8, 2006 Posted June 8, 2006 Dear all I get married in 1990 I never had problem with her until 1995 She was a woman who didn´t like sex too much and used to have anger crises sometimes (bipolar disorder) In 1995, she started a phone friendship with Bill, a police man from 911, who was help her to solve a little neighbor argue I used to work in a city 40 miles away I only got home only at week ends On a sunday at 5pm, I heard she into the bathroom, on the wireless phone talking to Bill When I got close, she just hung up the phone and looked at me very scared She refused to comment about that and got depressed for 4 months In 2001, already in another city she had a severe anger crisis and we argued a lot She said: Do you really wanna know ? ” I had sexual relation with Bill, because I loved him “ The fact of the said “ because I loved him” let me very confused I suffered a lot because I was very faithful to her , never cheated her In 2004 I started to cheat her, and I cheat her until now as revenge My question is: ”If you were me, would you believe this woman really cheated you ?” Thanks Mustache
JadeStar Posted June 8, 2006 Posted June 8, 2006 If she told you she cheated then I guess she did. Not sure why she would tell you that unless it was true. Unless she did it for spite or to make you jealous. 2 wrongs don't make a right by you cheating as well. I understand you are upset, but do you think marraige counseling might help you both? Do you feel this is a fixable situation? If so get into some marriage counseling. You both sound kind of young, may I ask your ages? Jade
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