Author theman101 Posted June 11, 2006 Author Posted June 11, 2006 I did that but it will erase the messages
Tim'sAngel Posted June 11, 2006 Posted June 11, 2006 I did that but it will erase the messages Why would it do that? Have you talked to someone?
Author theman101 Posted June 11, 2006 Author Posted June 11, 2006 Yes, I talked to a person at the company.
Tim'sAngel Posted June 11, 2006 Posted June 11, 2006 Yes, I talked to a person at the company. WOw thats stupid. SO you just never get voicemail or you just don't ever get to check it? Didn't you think about this before you gave her you #? Hey I have an idea, go to ur missed calls and see what # it was, then call that # back
Author theman101 Posted June 12, 2006 Author Posted June 12, 2006 haha that would work if my phone was on when I got called. Unfortunately, it was not. Yes, I probably should've thought about this before hand.
Author theman101 Posted June 13, 2006 Author Posted June 13, 2006 Alright, I have the response. To me it sounds like a courteous rejection :\. "sorry I haven't gotten back to you. I have not checked my email in over a week. That sounds cool but I am leaving for Europe tomorrow for 2 weeks and then heading to the beach for a week 2 days after i return from europe. So the next month is pretty hectic for me. Anyhow, have a great week and enjoy the summer while we have it!"
vampress1 Posted June 13, 2006 Posted June 13, 2006 I wouldn't say it was a rejection. Look at it this way... she wrote back and she knows who you are! Those are positives!! She probably agonized about what to write to you as much as you did writing to her. I would write back, tell her to have a great time in Europe and the beach. Keep it cool... She knows you're interested so I wouldn't mention it again. Mid-summer, shoot her another email. Try to find something cool to do like get tickets to a concert or an amusement park or something and ask her to go with.
j.carsey Posted June 13, 2006 Posted June 13, 2006 I agree it just sounds like she won't be around, i.e. can't possibly meet up now. She can't drop everything and rush to see you The reply is a positive thing, open door Don't forget about her and contact her later again. Keep in mind that someone returning from a long trip might have a backlog of emails, some which can disappear (I almost thought a girl was totally rejecting me recently and it turned out my emails just got caught in her spam filter... didn't know til she told me)
Author theman101 Posted June 13, 2006 Author Posted June 13, 2006 haha, thank you. I didn't expect her to drop everything to see me but I thought it lacked interest.
Author theman101 Posted June 13, 2006 Author Posted June 13, 2006 The "it sounds cool but..." sounds like a lack of interest. When I say "cool" I really mean "sounds really boring" but I'm trying to spare feelings.
Author theman101 Posted July 5, 2006 Author Posted July 5, 2006 Alright so this time around do I ask her to lunch, or should it just be a "I hope you had fun, yada yada yada" thing?
Tim'sAngel Posted July 6, 2006 Posted July 6, 2006 So I'm guessing she is back from her vaca? Just email her and ask her how her summer is going. Let her reply and just see how she responds. Then I'd make my next decision based on her next email.
jerbear Posted July 6, 2006 Posted July 6, 2006 Sounds like lack of interests and giving you the "lets be friends line" Granted it is the summer and it is high school.
Author theman101 Posted July 6, 2006 Author Posted July 6, 2006 That's what I thought as well jerbear.
vampress1 Posted July 7, 2006 Posted July 7, 2006 I would wait until next week and shoot her an email. I would suggest some sort of group activity... do you know any of her friends? Can you plan some sort of outing? Is there a lake/ocean around that you can plan a day trip to? Keep it light and fun. I would have a plan in mind before emailing her... I know I can't stand a guy that's like "i dunno, what do you wanna do?". Make a few suggestions. You'll get your answer, yes or no, next week.
Author theman101 Posted July 7, 2006 Author Posted July 7, 2006 what about a concert that's very nearby, or lunch?
Tim'sAngel Posted July 7, 2006 Posted July 7, 2006 what about a concert that's very nearby, or lunch? IMO, I'd start out with something simple, just so you guys can get to know each other better. I don't know about you but I'd hate to be at a concert feeling awkward, Id rather go with someone I would have a good time with. Maybe just ask her if she likes the band. If she really likes them, then maybe it would be a good idea. Whatever you are more comfortable with.
vampress1 Posted July 7, 2006 Posted July 7, 2006 I think a concert could be kind of cool... can you keep it cheap? I wouldn't drop a bunch of money on tickets, that might make her feel weird. If you can pick up some lawn seats for $20 or less, that would be good. I would still try to make it a group outing if possible. I think it will help with any awkwardness.
Author theman101 Posted July 8, 2006 Author Posted July 8, 2006 Well actually a friend of mine's brother is the lead singer of the band so I could make it free
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