noclue Posted June 7, 2006 Posted June 7, 2006 I have been friends with this guy for almost 4 years. We have so much in common. I recently expressed my feelings for him, this attraction I had. He says he has always felt the same way, but didnt think I did. It didnt take long for our relationship to turn physical. Since then, I have longed for him sexually, as he too, but we both feel it is more than that. We can talk about nothing for hours. We walk the beach just holding hands. We make out like crazy, but dont always have sex. He takes me out, dinner, movies, you name it. I smile when ever he calls, and he says the same about me. Just hearing his voice makes me happy, I get butterlies when I think of our times together. I have always felt a connection to him. Something that no one else has with him. Again, he feels the same way. This might be a stupid question, but is this lust or love? I wish I knew the difference. Maybe an outsider can enlighten me.
StayClose Posted June 7, 2006 Posted June 7, 2006 The difference between love and lust??? Sorry all you romantics & moral conservatives. It boils down to this: If you want to have sex with someone but they're not a good prospect for an LTR (long term relationship), it's lust. If you do think they'd make a good relationship partner, it's called love Sor
everlastinggobstoppr Posted June 7, 2006 Posted June 7, 2006 I have been friends with this guy for almost 4 years. We have so much in common. I recently expressed my feelings for him, this attraction I had. He says he has always felt the same way, but didnt think I did. It didnt take long for our relationship to turn physical. Since then, I have longed for him sexually, as he too, but we both feel it is more than that. We can talk about nothing for hours. We walk the beach just holding hands. We make out like crazy, but dont always have sex. He takes me out, dinner, movies, you name it. I smile when ever he calls, and he says the same about me. Just hearing his voice makes me happy, I get butterlies when I think of our times together. I have always felt a connection to him. Something that no one else has with him. Again, he feels the same way. This might be a stupid question, but is this lust or love? I wish I knew the difference. Maybe an outsider can enlighten me.is it like this? http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5i6JET1iBhE
noclue Posted June 8, 2006 Posted June 8, 2006 Oh yea, its like that. Except I CAN live with him & I CANT live without him. I think you answered my question. Now I have to wonder if he feels the same way, or if I am FWB (friends with benefits). I hope I mean something more than that.
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