littleroom Posted June 7, 2006 Posted June 7, 2006 ... and thought, how in the world could I ever hurt you? This man looks at me with love in his eyes everyday. He would kill tigers for me. He wants nothing but the best for us. I think I am on the road to emotional recovery. I feel I need to conquer this like I did with my 10 + year battle with anorexia. I know I will go through pain, through fear and through loss... but I have to go after this head on. I have to get emotionally connected to my husband again. Thanks for listening... as always. --- littleroom
Chump64 Posted June 7, 2006 Posted June 7, 2006 Good! Now keep posting here to keep us updated on your progress. Good luck.
Author littleroom Posted June 7, 2006 Author Posted June 7, 2006 Good! Now keep posting here to keep us updated on your progress. Good luck. Thanks... will do. --- littleroom
grateful Posted June 7, 2006 Posted June 7, 2006 ... and thought, how in the world could I ever hurt you? This man looks at me with love in his eyes everyday. He would kill tigers for me. He wants nothing but the best for us. wow I can totally relate to this feeling. I think I am on the road to emotional recovery. I feel I need to conquer this like I did with my 10 + year battle with anorexia. I know I will go through pain, through fear and through loss... but I have to go after this head on. I have to get emotionally connected to my husband again. Thanks for listening... as always. --- littleroom Glad to hear that you are on the road. I'm inspired by your mention of your struggle with anorexia. It reminds me that this struggle to get past infidelity is also hard and requires work. Thanks for the inspiration. (oh and congrats on winning your battle with anorexia... that definitely shows you are strong enough for this one too!)
Author littleroom Posted June 8, 2006 Author Posted June 8, 2006 wow I can totally relate to this feeling. Glad to hear that you are on the road. I'm inspired by your mention of your struggle with anorexia. It reminds me that this struggle to get past infidelity is also hard and requires work. Thanks for the inspiration. (oh and congrats on winning your battle with anorexia... that definitely shows you are strong enough for this one too!) Thank you grateful... today has been a bad day though and I don't feel as strong. Baby steps... --- littleroom
target-d Posted June 8, 2006 Posted June 8, 2006 Baby steps, but you're on the right road. That's what matters. ((((hugs)))))
THX2000 Posted June 9, 2006 Posted June 9, 2006 ... and thought, how in the world could I ever hurt you? This man looks at me with love in his eyes everyday. He would kill tigers for me. He wants nothing but the best for us. I think I am on the road to emotional recovery. I feel I need to conquer this like I did with my 10 + year battle with anorexia. I know I will go through pain, through fear and through loss... but I have to go after this head on. I have to get emotionally connected to my husband again. Thanks for listening... as always. --- littleroom I am glad for you that you realized what you have here before you lost everything. Good luck and keep your head up!
Guest Posted June 9, 2006 Posted June 9, 2006 Thank you grateful... today has been a bad day though and I don't feel as strong. Baby steps... --- littleroom hey littleroom, question, this other guy in your office, is he married as well? Or is he not in a committed relationship right now? Just wondering, if he were married, I wonder if this would be easier for you? Good luck, remember what is really important.
Author littleroom Posted June 10, 2006 Author Posted June 10, 2006 hey littleroom, question, this other guy in your office, is he married as well? Or is he not in a committed relationship right now? Just wondering, if he were married, I wonder if this would be easier for you? Good luck, remember what is really important. No, he is single. --- littleroom
Chump64 Posted June 10, 2006 Posted June 10, 2006 There are pros and cons to both sides of the other person, and their marital status. If the other person is single, it's often a bigger threat to the marriage in terms of actually breaking up the marriage. It's easier for a wandering spouse to get a divorce and go with the affair partner, if the affair partner is single. However -- if the other person is married and has no intention of leaving his / her spouse, but wants a "boyfriend" (or girlfriend), it can lay the groundwork for an intense but low-maintenance, long-term affair (like my husband's).
Author littleroom Posted June 10, 2006 Author Posted June 10, 2006 There are pros and cons to both sides of the other person, and their marital status. If the other person is single, it's often a bigger threat to the marriage in terms of actually breaking up the marriage. It's easier for a wandering spouse to get a divorce and go with the affair partner, if the affair partner is single. However -- if the other person is married and has no intention of leaving his / her spouse, but wants a "boyfriend" (or girlfriend), it can lay the groundwork for an intense but low-maintenance, long-term affair (like my husband's). I agree. Because this guy is single it does seem like it is that much easier. --- littleroom
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