Jessy Posted June 6, 2006 Posted June 6, 2006 hello. It is hard to get him to do anything with me. anyone tell me what im doing wrong?
JackJack Posted June 6, 2006 Posted June 6, 2006 hello. It is hard to get him to do anything with me. anyone tell me what im doing wrong? Could you please explain a litle more about your situation. We can't really help you by just the question you asked. We need more specifics.
Author Jessy Posted June 7, 2006 Author Posted June 7, 2006 OK, we got married a month ago and even before that he barily love on me or holds me and it is really hard to get him to bumpuglys.It makes me wonder:confused: if their is someone else. Two months ago we had a baby and he loved it.I used to have ta fight to get him off me but now I'm to get him on me. What should I do?
Pink_Tulip Posted June 7, 2006 Posted June 7, 2006 Have you talked with him about this? What does he say?
Author Jessy Posted June 7, 2006 Author Posted June 7, 2006 Ok' I know I should but I'm scared to. I love him alot and I dont want to lose him. He tells me he loves me but I'm not shure at times. He don't do some of the things he used to and I miss that. Like he used to hold my close to him when his friends are around and not care.Or he used to frinchkiss me and now he won't. He used to like it when I tuched him or held on to him. Now he don't even want me to tuch him. It really scares me.
JackJack Posted June 7, 2006 Posted June 7, 2006 OK, we got married a month ago and even before that he barily love on me or holds me and it is really hard to get him to bumpuglys.It makes me wonder:confused: if their is someone else. Two months ago we had a baby and he loved it.I used to have ta fight to get him off me but now I'm to get him on me. What should I do? Sounds like the case of, "My g/f/wife has just had a baby and I'm freaking out." Do you think he was put off by you while you were pregant? Did he see the birth and was he grossed out by it? Think those are silly things? I hope not becasue the reality is, SOME men are put off by that. They start tripping becasue their wife or g/f has an expanding belly wondering if they wil ever look the way the did before. SOME men (even though the miracle of birth is a wonderful thing) sometimes get grossed out becasue of where the baby comes out of etc. Not ALL men, but SOME. Do you think thats a possibilty? You need to talk with him and tell him how this makes you feel, by him not touching you much, see what he has to say.
Author Jessy Posted June 7, 2006 Author Posted June 7, 2006 ok i ask him last noght and all he said is i do love you. that was not my qustions thats all i got out of him.
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