jenniferlm Posted June 5, 2006 Posted June 5, 2006 Just wondering.... 1. Is it okay for a woman to call a man the day after the date and say "thanks had a great time?" or does that seem desperate? Is this the man's domain? 2. If a date night is set aside, and no call comes...it is okay for the other person to call up and check and see if the date is still on? Or should they just forget it? 3. After the first sexual encounter in a relationship, should a man (or woman) be expected to call the next day? Or should it be treated as though the previous night was just another "date" night? 4. If a man asks a woman to call him, and she doesn't or is late in calling him back will she be seen as playing games and not taking him seriously? Or is this something that only women think? 5. Who is expected to pay? The man? Woman? The person that asked? Whoever makes more money?
Pyro Posted June 5, 2006 Posted June 5, 2006 Just wondering.... 1. Is it okay for a woman to call a man the day after the date and say "thanks had a great time?" or does that seem desperate? Is this the man's domain? 2. If a date night is set aside, and no call comes...it is okay for the other person to call up and check and see if the date is still on? Or should they just forget it? 3. After the first sexual encounter in a relationship, should a man (or woman) be expected to call the next day? Or should it be treated as though the previous night was just another "date" night? 4. If a man asks a woman to call him, and she doesn't or is late in calling him back will she be seen as playing games and not taking him seriously? Or is this something that only women think? 5. Who is expected to pay? The man? Woman? The person that asked? Whoever makes more money? 1. Yes its o.k. for the woman 2. If the person is late, I would call once and if no answer, just leave a message and if still no callback, then chances are you are being stood up. 3. Its not expected. 4. Unless there is a valid excuse for her not calling or calling late, then she is not that into you. 5. For at least the first date, the man should be paying.
alphamale Posted June 5, 2006 Posted June 5, 2006 3. Its not expected. so lets see RIDDLER...you will call a woman the next day after meeting her but you won't call the next day after you had your cock in all her orificies. that doesn't sound right to me
Pyro Posted June 5, 2006 Posted June 5, 2006 so lets see RIDDLER...you will call a woman the next day after meeting her but you won't call the next day after you had your cock in all her orificies. that doesn't sound right to me If I am interested in getting to know the woman, then yes I will call her the next day, but I have never heard of calling a woman the next day just because you had sex with her. I am not saying that it is wrong, I just never heard of that.
alphamale Posted June 5, 2006 Posted June 5, 2006 but I have never heard of calling a woman the next day just because you had sex with her. yes, the general rule of thumb is after the 1st time you bang her you call her the next day...assuming you ever want to have sex with her again.
Pyro Posted June 5, 2006 Posted June 5, 2006 yes, the general rule of thumb is after the 1st time you bang her you call her the next day...assuming you ever want to have sex with her again. If I were having sex with a woman, I would already be interested in her and therefore I would be calling her the next day, not because we slept together, but because of my interest level in her.
dice4 Posted June 8, 2006 Posted June 8, 2006 Yes, it's ok for the woman to call after the first date. The old fashioned days where the man is supposed call is gone.
Kittiecat Posted June 8, 2006 Posted June 8, 2006 1. I don't think there's anything wrong with it. I don't do it, though...I'm old fashioned, I guess. 2. If during the last date the guy says "Oh lets do such and such next Saturday night" and you say OK and make informal plans, these plans should be firmed up before the actual date. So if the guy doesn't call by say a Wednesday or Thursday I think it's OK to call just to firm things up. If he doesn't answer or doesn't get back with you by at least (fill in here how long you are willing to wait on a man to confirm plans - some women will wait until same day, others play by those "rules" where you don't accept a date if made after Thursday or some crap like that). 3. I think it would be a nice surprise but personally I don't expect it. If they spent the night there's no reason to call you later if they leave your place in the morning, not much to catch up on, you know? 4. Sorry, I have no idea, I'll let the guys take this one. 5. I agree with Riddler on the first date...and I sort of think the man should pay for a majority of the dates (at least 60-40, fair enough?). I've always made a habit of being the nice girlfriend and paying for my dates...a lunch here and there, drinks at the bar, etc. Eventually it bit me in the ass because there are some guys who get VERY comfortable with that and take advantage...and soon I was picking up the check more than not.
lonelybird Posted June 8, 2006 Posted June 8, 2006 I would never call man, especially after sex with him, think if he is interested, he would call. But every people is different, do the things suit for you is the best
dgiirl Posted June 8, 2006 Posted June 8, 2006 my rule in dating is not to worry so much about rules. If i feel like doing something, I do it. If not, i wont. I just find it easier to do this because this is how i would act in a month or two when/if we're in a relationship. I want to be comfortable and just be myself and I want him to get to know who i am without worrying about all these rules.
Art_Critic Posted June 8, 2006 Posted June 8, 2006 If i feel like doing something, I do it. If not, i wont. Same here .. there are no rules
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