Should I worry?

[STLguy]

My GF is on an internship in Atlanta. I accidently saw an email to my GF to one of our mutual friends email accounts when I was over at her house. In the email my GF said something about a bet going on between the male interns on who can get with a girl with a boyfriend from the office. She also mentioned in the email that she has spoken out against the idea and said something about how some of the girls are just attention whores aand will end up doing something they shouldn't. Then she said something like "there is something to say about a summer fling." That was the line that irked me, even if she did say she spoke out about it. What does that mean? Anyone? I don't want to say something about the email because I don't want them both to think I was snooping or something, which I wasn't, I saw it by accident. I would like to get some more details at this point but have no idea how to.

[Sevenmack]

Why don't you just ask her if she's cheating or not and get over with it. If she says yes, dump her. If not, trust her, get her some flowers and stop peeking into her e-mail. Stop snooping period.

 

Let this be a lesson to you: Go places you ought not to be and you'll learn things out that will disturb you. Especially if they aren't anything worth getting worked over in the first place.

[STLguy]

I wasn't snooping, we have a mutual friend that lives in the same town as I do and I was using her computer to check something when I saw it. I do trust her, though I really don't know what she meant by "there is something to say about a summer fling." But you're right, it probably isn't something to get worked up over. I just miss her, am hating the distance, and it's making me imagine stupid things.

[whichwayisup]

Just let her know that cheating will be the dealbreaker if you two ever breakup. That it's not tolerated. IF she knows NOW how you feel about it and that you will leave her if she ever cheats on you, then the chances of her cheating on you are very slim.