SweetMisery Posted June 5, 2006 Posted June 5, 2006 Okay please forgive me for asking this question it maybe one of those "Duh" situations but I want to make sure that I am interpretting this correctly. This guy friend and I have been hanging out just the two of us twice in the past month or so a couple weeks apart or so. See this thread for background info: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/showthread.php?p=778453#post778453 Anyway, each time I go over he gives me a massage and has been going out of his way to try to get me excited and nervous by getting close to me hugging me holding me etc. The last time we hung out was last saturday. Anyway so this past weekend I decided I wanted to see him again so I called on Saturday. Well, he never returned my calls ( I made 2 a few hours apart). Then around midnight last night he gave me a call and being curious I called back. We chit chat for about 15 minutes and I mention that I pulled a neck muscle and really could use a neck massage. So what does he do? He tells me to come over so he can give me a massage. At this point, I mention that it's late and he's like its no problem you can spend the night. He's like so that way I can keep you awake this time. Meaning that he didnt get much sleep the last time I came over before he had to go into work. So what does this mean? Is an implied hook up question? He kept saying that I should come over and he would still be awake when I got there. We even discussed him coming here to my house but I still live at home trying to save money for a place of my own so he was afraid my mom would kill him if he came over. So what does all this mean? Just a booty call? I mean we've been playing this game for about a month now.
destination_unknown Posted June 5, 2006 Posted June 5, 2006 I think you should just relax and enjoy the company. Its only been a month and your still kinda getting to know each other anyway, it will make it so much better if something does happen. Have fun!
Author SweetMisery Posted June 5, 2006 Author Posted June 5, 2006 Actually we know each other rather well. We went to school and started hanging out essentially in college for over 4 years now. He's never really put moves on me before so I don't know what to expect. I am just trying to see if I can figure out where his head is.
Author SweetMisery Posted June 6, 2006 Author Posted June 6, 2006 When a guy calls in the middle of the night can it ever mean anything other than the obvious?
Sand&Water Posted June 6, 2006 Posted June 6, 2006 When a guy calls in the middle of the night can it ever mean anything other than the obvious? Usually means he's thinking of you or he has something important on his mind and wants to share it with you but is unsure. Ask him about it. Communicate openly with him. Most often, if a guy is really interested in you he will make his actions, and words speak for themselves. Seems like he's just going with the flow, so to speak, and not really into the whole picture. Food for thought.
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