tomiris Posted June 5, 2006 Posted June 5, 2006 me n my bf were goin out for 6 months.it was not perfect at all we were arguing every day we used to break up at leist once a week and if we lucky once in two weeks. but no matter how many break up we had we loved each other so much. we both from a different background. his parents will never accept me, where as mine already have. his sister hates me and keeps calling me names. i have to admit he does love me more he would do more for me. i kept treating him bad he would always come back. i have recentley found out that he has been lying a lot to me. that he had secret msn where he used to chat to girl. he never met up with them but the fac that he lyied it kills me. the worst thing is that i lost all of my friends because of him. i got in to fights with girls because of him. i made enemy with this girl and he encouragd me to do it and he said he would support me through all of it. but next thing he does is makes friends with her. it killed me more than anything. i preferif he done something else but its the fact that he can actually do it. we always used to break up and get back within a day. but this time i do not know what to do. i love him but i dont wana marry him. he wants to marry me and keeps pushing it i say yes buy i lie. but if i will say no he will leave me. he wont let me go out, speak to some of my girlfriends, eat what i want, wear skirts i do nt have a privacy. it annoys me because i do not mind giving it all up for him but when he goes and does that it hurts so bad. he cries more than me, he beggs me to come back, i love him but i love my self more i can not let him destroy me but then again sometimes i say what is few tears when you have such a great time with him? i dont know what to do shall i forgive all the lie and hurt? or should i move on. please help me
tearful_soul22 Posted June 5, 2006 Posted June 5, 2006 move on...then you can both stop lying to each other and trying to fix what is already broken. he is a control freak and clingy. and each day with him will only cause you to lost your self-esteem. goodluck to you and my best wishes for a great life ahead!
doublem316 Posted June 5, 2006 Posted June 5, 2006 Hi, In my experience, without trust a relationship is doomed. If you do want this guy back, you need to sit down and lay out some ground rules for the relationship. Make it clear that if he breaks one he's gone, and have the strength to do so if the time comes! Good luck whatever you choose!
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