sunnie23 Posted June 5, 2006 Posted June 5, 2006 last night i had a girls night, and we drank wayyy too much. my boyfriend had gone out with his friends and also drank too much. we ended up at the same bar, and at the end of the night i was sitting on his lap. people would approach us and we'd talk to them but stayed where we were. a girl he knew approached us at one point, and they hugged. he leaned in and i couldnt tell if he kissed her neck or what he did, but she pulled away and said "dont do that, it tickles" i got really upset and walked away from him. he followed me home and we didnt say a word to each other, as i knew that i would say things i didnt mean because i was so drunk. in the morning i brought it up. he didnt remember it at all. i told him i thought he kissed her and that it really upset me. he said he could not remember anything at all, and didnt even know who it was. i don't know what to do. i dont think he would cheat on me, but i am jealous of this. we went to the movies tonight and everything was normal. hes an amazing guy but i just dont know what to make of this.
Pyro Posted June 5, 2006 Posted June 5, 2006 last night i had a girls night, and we drank wayyy too much. my boyfriend had gone out with his friends and also drank too much. we ended up at the same bar, and at the end of the night i was sitting on his lap. people would approach us and we'd talk to them but stayed where we were. a girl he knew approached us at one point, and they hugged. he leaned in and i couldnt tell if he kissed her neck or what he did, but she pulled away and said "dont do that, it tickles" i got really upset and walked away from him. he followed me home and we didnt say a word to each other, as i knew that i would say things i didnt mean because i was so drunk. in the morning i brought it up. he didnt remember it at all. i told him i thought he kissed her and that it really upset me. he said he could not remember anything at all, and didnt even know who it was. i don't know what to do. i dont think he would cheat on me, but i am jealous of this. we went to the movies tonight and everything was normal. hes an amazing guy but i just dont know what to make of this. guys and girls that I know act completely different when they have been drinking, some of whom have ended up cheating. These people do have a drinking problem. Its all or none for them. Does your BF drink constantly? You said that he said he couldn't remember the night before. Sounds to me like he has a drinking problem. If his drunk behavior does bother you, you need to have a talk with him about his potential problem, or you can learn to deal with his drunkeness, but i would go with the first choice.
runner Posted June 5, 2006 Posted June 5, 2006 don't drink so much, learn to control your tolerance, and don't read into it (being drunk) too much. assuming everything is back to normal in sobriety, you might just be paranoid for no reason.
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