whattothink Posted June 4, 2006 Posted June 4, 2006 What would one think if a married man offered to take a fairly new co-worker to go sailing. We were at lunch yesterday and then he offered but did not mention taking his wife along. We interact with each other every day and usually spend long periods of time visiting with each other about non-work related issues. I know if it were my spouse (although I am single) I would be pissed! It doesn't help that I'm ten years younger. Any thoughts???
westernxer Posted June 4, 2006 Posted June 4, 2006 It's pretty obvious why he's asking you to go sailing, and it isn't because he's planning to throw you over the bow.
Spank'n'Rationality Posted June 4, 2006 Posted June 4, 2006 It's pretty obvious why he's asking you to go sailing, and it isn't because he's planning to throw you over the bow. Hey, I don't know, he might be into the damsel-in-distress situation... What would one think if a married man offered to take a fairly new co-worker to go sailing. We were at lunch yesterday and then he offered but did not mention taking his wife along. We interact with each other every day and usually spend long periods of time visiting with each other about non-work related issues. I know if it were my spouse (although I am single) I would be pissed! It doesn't help that I'm ten years younger. Any thoughts??? Yeah, he is interested in you. If you go with him, expect for him to hit on you. It sounds like you are considering the wife, which is good; I suggest you really think about it before doing anything/going anywhere with him. If you are not interested in having an affer, I suggest you don't go unless his wife is going with him, but even then, I would be weary; you never know what people are into...
Mary3 Posted June 4, 2006 Posted June 4, 2006 What would one think if a married man offered to take a fairly new co-worker to go sailing. We were at lunch yesterday and then he offered but did not mention taking his wife along. We interact with each other every day and usually spend long periods of time visiting with each other about non-work related issues. I know if it were my spouse (although I am single) I would be pissed! It doesn't help that I'm ten years younger. Any thoughts??? Sailing ? Just you and him ? Miles out from anyone ? Hrmm....I think he plans something and its not how to lauch an anchor !
Love Hurts Posted June 4, 2006 Posted June 4, 2006 Do you want the guilt of being the home wrecker? With so much pain in the world ... broken homes.... You could do a wife a favor and remind him he is married.. Or you could pursue this request and intrest in him.... To the point that you fall for him. You want him. He says he is going to divorce his wife. He keeps you as mistress. Refuses to divorce his wife too costly at the moment... He has bills to pay. You start loosing your mind. You want to break it off. You work with him. You have to see him at work each day. You wish you never started this. You feel used, you get depressed, quit your job. You can't pay rent and end up homeless. Is is it worth it? Do you know any great guys that are unattached? On the job relationships are not a good idea, particularly when it's a threesome.
Author whattothink Posted June 5, 2006 Author Posted June 5, 2006 Thanks all! Just wanted to run it by y'all to know what he might be thinking. Definately not interested in a married guy. I have much better ethics than that! Just wanted to be more cautious as to how I act around him and how often we spend time together. Luckily, it's easy to avoid since we're not directly working with one another! Thanks again!
elijahBailey Posted June 6, 2006 Posted June 6, 2006 Well, what else could it be? The cabins down below are pretty cozy. juz tell him you're prone to seasickness. keep to your ethics....
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