SadGreenEyes Posted June 3, 2006 Posted June 3, 2006 My boyfriend received a message on his cell phone the other day that was a song. No one spoke. He played it for me and I couldnt really place the song, but it sounded like an r&b mellow love song. The only person I could possibly think of that could have sent him this song would be an old female friend of his who no longer speaks to him because she could not handle our relationship. They were friends for 14 years and she always loved him, however he was never attracted to her. They never fooled around or dated. He said when they met she was really heavy, and that after a while of getting to really know him she figured out my boyfriend liked thin women, so she had her stomach stapled for him and he still was not interested. When we started dating, she treated him as if he had an affair or something. He didnt get her. I couldnt stand her being around, mind you, I never met her, laid eyes on her or spoke to her. She did everything possible to try to come between us, tried convincing him that he should break up with me, etc. She had no respect for me our our relationship. She called him several times a day, everyday, inviting him to friends parties, to her family gatherings. He never followed through and that made her more insane. She pulled this crap for the first year and a lahf into our relationship. It wasnt until he told her that I was moving in with him that she gave him an ultimatum, If that bitch moves in, I will never speak to you again. I moved in, she has not been heard from. He told me that throughout the years she would "disapprear" for a few months or so when he was involved with his ex's, women she couldnt stand either. It's been the longest that she has not been in contact with him, like 9 months now, and I have a gut feeling she is going to resurface. I believe the song was left by her. How do I deal with this and what should I do to prevent this nighmare from reentering his life? We fought so much when she was in the picture. She was a major negative influence in our relationship and I still hold resentment towards the whole situation. He knows my feelings on this, and knows I would not tollerate her popping her ugly head back into his life. It will cause a serious problem. Any suggestions? Oh, and his cell didnt display any unknown or unfamiliar numbers. Is there a way to figure out the number in which trhis call was from and the message, because if it wasnt her, I sure as hell would like to know who's leaving love songs on his cell. It has to be a woman, wouldnt you think? If it was a man....that would just be downright scary.
BlueEyedSarah Posted June 3, 2006 Posted June 3, 2006 Maybe a girl has got the wrong number and they accidently got the number which happens to be your boyfriends number. Who knows, I wouldn't worry about it until this woman starts comming back into his life. He is not attracted to her and if he respects and if it is this woman you think it is then he will respect how you feel and not communicate back. Next time he gets one of these love songs just don't bother replying to the message.
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