Blue Eyes Posted June 3, 2006 Posted June 3, 2006 I have enjoyed reading through the years the posts on this site however I need your advice please. I was in a long term engaged relationship that ended not friendly at all a few years ago. We both went our seperate ways after trying to work it out,more on his part a few times more. He became engaged and married within 8 months of meeting his current 3rd wife and all was well. Unfortunatley we both work in the same line of business and run into each other a few times a year which is very uncomfortable at least on my part. The first encounter i saw him from afar with a co-worker and thought he hadn't seen me,he went out of his way to run over and start a conversation,giving me a kiss on the cheek which i was very taken back,honeslt i was taken off guard by this behavior since at that time he was engaged i said nothing. Several times in those days he would interupt my conversations with others,go with his friends to where I was staying no saying anything to me but being in close proximity. 2 months later he gets engaged and 3 months after that I go to a business function not thinking he is there and I spot him. I chose to avoid him and go the other way in the room. 10 minutes later i'm talking to a group of people and he comes over. He starts having a conversation with me about did i get his message of congrats over a business issue I had,was I busy,I tried not to have much of a conversation more then that and he left. When we were ready to sit down for dinner a group of us were looking for a table and I was talking to a women,he asked he twice where she was sitting,knowing full well i was talking with this lady who happened to at one time be a very close friend of us both. She didn't answer him and we eventually all looked for another table without,thank goodness. A few other things happened that evening minor that made me uncomfortable. I have to see him at a business function in a month I try to act business and respectable but I don't know at this point what more I can do. I'm surprised at this mans actions since this breakup was not good and everyone in our business arena unfortunately knew it. He has moved on, how do i get over this uncomfortable and unavoidable situation.
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