9Lives Posted June 3, 2006 Posted June 3, 2006 i am breaking up i guess with a man I love and the way I have been able to cope is not to think about what I loved about him but to think about EVERYTHING I DONT LIKE ABOUT the relationship....and believe me, it helps. I still miss him like crazy but not the relationship. it was not working for us. I love him so much but ...the relationship drives me crazy. I just need a break
Guest Posted June 3, 2006 Posted June 3, 2006 Just curious, you need a break, but you still love him... does this mean you might want to work it out with him later (maybe a fresh start after you've had time to cool off and heal, think about/deal with the problems you had), or are you just done with the relationship? My ex broke up with me almost 3 months ago... he seemed pretty emotional about it, but said he just couldnt do it anymore... he needed a change faster than i could try to improve on what I was doing (he was under a lot of stress at the time and was going through a bit of a depression). He told me there is no chance for a future, and im wondering if he was truly a jerk... or whether he just needed time. Either way im trying to move on, but it would be nice to know that it is possible maybe one day.
Guest Posted June 3, 2006 Posted June 3, 2006 I think we are letting things just cool down and see if we can get a fresh start again.
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