Altaira Posted June 2, 2006 Posted June 2, 2006 stlll has profile up where we met, he claims its just so he can communicate with friends he made on website. that it's no different than me going to forums and having forum friends which i do. spends holidays with friends or old friend and his wife we never go out to movies or lunch etc. QUESTION: can any of this be reasonably explained away? BACKGROUND: we met onlin a year ago, started as friends on phone then became very close and met last fall. he is very busy with work most of thje time. i've turned down coming over lots of times which he's upset over. he also has to pick me up and drive back and then bring me back home each time because i don't drive. and he pouts and gived me silent treatment because i'm not having sex with him. hes very demanding. he used to be very adoring but is now withholding affection because of thne sex. he used to be very very attentive and affectionate with words anyway.
jerbear Posted June 8, 2006 Posted June 8, 2006 I'm looking at this with my own behavior to one ex. I was not all that into her, she had enough but not enough for me to drop everything and I valued my own friends over her. I ended the relationship after 3 months. I think you two are just friendly with the occassional sexual tension/sex. Your relationship sounds like it lost some steam, you have a few options among them are rekindling the steam/passion. Sex DOES NOT HAVE to be included; don't use sex as a lure, you may end up regreting it since he does the pouting and witching with a B. Another option is to talk to him, it may include going seperate ways. It appears that you have made a decision to change the status quo and put him in the friend bucket.
Kitteney Posted June 8, 2006 Posted June 8, 2006 based on what you present, you should ask yourself one question: Does his behavior make you feel good or like a piece of crap stuck between the nubs on the sole of his shoe? it ain't gonna change. if you get off on being treated like a turd, you'll continue to be treated like a turd.
Author Altaira Posted June 9, 2006 Author Posted June 9, 2006 We've talked for a year, and he started as a supportive friend, getting me over my other ex bf. He was very adoring and attentive. And would chase after me. And would struggle to keep our relationship whenever I threatened to break off. So the good times make it hard to get over him.
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