kjo314 Posted June 2, 2006 Posted June 2, 2006 Guys/Gals So I met this girl about 3 weeks ago. She is amazing. We have been hanging out and such and she seems to like me. When I asked her she said she has feelings for me and could see us together. Obviously, being a man of morals I havn't pursued this because I don't want to force anything. She has told me that she doesn't think that her and her b.f will make it through the distance of summer and she said she is also confused about both relationships but told me that she could see us together. We have hung out twice this week and she is going to 2 dances with me this weekend. I don't know what to do or what I should do. Obviously I want to be the one to make this woman happy! She keeps telling me she feels like the guy she is with she feels she isn't his type. They have only been together a month so it isn't like it has been that long. I could use some advice on how to make this a positive outcome for me. Call me an ass but I have never had good luck in this siutation and darnit I have finally met someone that makes me completely forget about all my failed relationships in the past and she is taken but there is a slim chance of hope and i really don't know what to do. I have never been in this situation..... Thank you all!
whichwayisup Posted June 2, 2006 Posted June 2, 2006 All you can do is back off abit, let her know that you aren't going to be her second guy to fallback on, spend time with now...If her relationship is going to end, let it end because things aren't working out between them. You don't want to be the cause of their break-up, which is why it's better all around to distance yourself from her. Be a friend, but sit and wait for her. Go on with your life, keep busy and stuff. THEN if they breakup, ask her out at the right time. (You also don't want to be the re-bound guy, so take it SLOW...) Hope this helps.
Jessie61 Posted June 2, 2006 Posted June 2, 2006 All you can do is back off abit, let her know that you aren't going to be her second guy to fallback on, spend time with now...If her relationship is going to end, let it end because things aren't working out between them. You don't want to be the cause of their break-up, which is why it's better all around to distance yourself from her. Be a friend, but sit and wait for her. Go on with your life, keep busy and stuff. THEN if they breakup, ask her out at the right time. (You also don't want to be the re-bound guy, so take it SLOW...) Hope this helps. Wise words, WWIU!!!!
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