too_nervous Posted June 1, 2006 Posted June 1, 2006 Come on ladies, what is the best way for a guy to ask you out? Daniel
waitingforlove Posted June 1, 2006 Posted June 1, 2006 Just ask directly, politely, and casually. Don't make it sound like a big deal. The key is not so much "how you ask," but whether or not she likes you. If she likes you, asking her directly shows her that you're really interested, and she'll be thrilled. If she doesn't like you, then at least you'll know right away. Just say something like, "would you like to go get lunch/dinner together some time?" And start from there .... Good luck!
Guest Posted June 4, 2006 Posted June 4, 2006 Now, here's the problem with this - most men don't ask, because they are afraid that if she does not like him, she'll go tell everybody that you've asked her out. That's a bit of a bad publicity and can hurt your future chances of going out with someone else. Would a girl really do that?
Guest Posted June 5, 2006 Posted June 5, 2006 You're damn right they would talk. Girls LOVE it when guys ask them out, even guys they don't like. This gives them a chance to tell their female friends that so-and-so asked them out, thereby making themelves seem more desirable to their female friends and giving them higher value in their clique. You're invitation for a date will be discussed, dissected, and analyzed mercilessly at their next girls' night out, pajama party, or whatever else these girls are into.
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