mistveiled Posted May 31, 2006 Posted May 31, 2006 Recently found this forum, at first I thought I was immature for using NC but I see that I am not the only one. It has been about a year and a half since I last talked to my ex. I used to wonder if I was immature for doing NC but it just seemed right, it makes sense. She broke up with me and I just want to keep going and not look back. Anyone else feel this way?
fabulousgal Posted May 31, 2006 Posted May 31, 2006 I did it bc there is no way I'd be comfortable being friends. In my situation, there was no tapering off and then a breakup. It was really sudden and everything seemed fine. So going from making plans to spend time together as a couple, to being friends was not gonna work for me. Way too devastating, and the worst thought of all, if we stay friends I'll have to see him with other people! No way!
Author mistveiled Posted May 31, 2006 Author Posted May 31, 2006 Ya I couldnt just go from lovers to friends, I guess some people can handle that but I perfer to move on and keep that past in the past.
BeHappy Posted May 31, 2006 Posted May 31, 2006 i currently doing it... i can't be his friend. If it is not important, i will never talk to him...
Diver012 Posted May 31, 2006 Posted May 31, 2006 I have no interest in Contact with my Ex. I dispise the fact I have to work on teh same property as she does, but that can change.
Author mistveiled Posted June 1, 2006 Author Posted June 1, 2006 Ya I used to work with my ex and several of her ex's. Weird situation. Got out of it.
Carlthecoffeeaddict Posted June 1, 2006 Posted June 1, 2006 exes are stepping stones to whats better out there exes are nothing but stale bread and 2 week old beer i aint givin my exes the benefit of my misery oh no dear.....
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