zarathustra Posted June 1, 2006 Posted June 1, 2006 Totally understand. I would only please ask that any opinions, which I dont mind hearing no matter how blunt, be factual! I'm sorry for all of the other OW's here, especially if thier MM is not being totally honest with them. But I have. It really is sad the situation I've gotten MYSELF into. But the truth is i'm in it and cant go back, dont want to. Like ive stated before, i will have no regrets with whatever the outcome and the OW and I are just waiting it out for now. If she waits, great! its her choice. If not, its her loss, C'est la vie! It was received better than I expected but certainly not without hurt and pain. What i mean is the situation didnt get out of control. we kept our tempers and kept it peaceful. but still have more to talk about, obviously. TM, you have chosen a difficult path in life, but one that is most fair to you and your W, given how you feel. W may not see it right now, but in time, she may. Good luck on your D. Like I said, sometimes until you are really out of the marriage, out of the house, etc, you don't know what you'll be missing. So take this time for yourself to find your happiness.
BUTAFLY Posted June 1, 2006 Posted June 1, 2006 You my dear are way too judgemental. I am not the tourtured person you make me out to look and I really resent that comment. Also, never once did I ask the OW to stick around, get your facts straight. Perhaps you should stop "speed" reading our comments and actually take the time to read carefully what we actually say. UPDATE: Last night I asked for a Divorce I think today is bash Butafly day, thats ok I can take it. True..you didn't say the words wait for me but, hanging around places hoping to see her, and trying to corrospond with her is not exactly letting her go either. I have no doubt your feelings for this women are true. I'm sure you didn't put it quite the way I did, but thats what she heard especially since she's been burnt by MM before. What got me was you couldn't understand why she is trying NC and distancing herself from you. I'm just glad that your the real deal and I commend you on that. I don't want to scare you way, I welcome MM, I love to hear everyones point of view- the MM/MW/BS/OW/OM. because their is always three sides to this story. keep up posted and best of luck to you.
Author TravelingMan Posted June 1, 2006 Author Posted June 1, 2006 True..you didn't say the words wait for me but, hanging around places hoping to see her, and trying to corrospond with her is not exactly letting her go either. It wasnt intentional and I certainly was NOT hoping to see her, because i'm sure she would be with another guy if she were there. No biggie. That part of town is the only place to party so i expected to see her but didnt. but thats what she heard especially since she's been burnt by MM before. What got me was you couldn't understand why she is trying NC and distancing herself from you. Now i got it since we spoke yesterday. Total protection. Understandable. I'm just glad that your the real deal and I commend you on that. I don't want to scare you way, I welcome MM, I love to hear everyones point of view- the MM/MW/BS/OW/OM. because their is always three sides to this story. keep up posted and best of luck to you. Thank you.
Blind Illusion Posted June 2, 2006 Posted June 2, 2006 UPDATE: Last night I asked for a Divorce How did that go? (Obviously, these things never go good, undertandably)
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