MFL Posted May 31, 2006 Posted May 31, 2006 So this is my sob story. Been going out with this guy for 8 years, known him for 13 ..since high school basically. Dated throughout college... He was in med school and 3 years ago graduated and is a resident. Anyhow, in february of this year we were engaged in discussions about intentions. I was like well we should know if we intend to get married or not someday. So he goes" well I have doubts and I dont know why'. I"m like what are those doubts' he goes he doesnt know..dont like your family blah blah blah'.Basically he couldnt quite figure it out. After a few weeks we revised this conversation and I"m like well you msut know so just say it. So he said ' its over'. WE both cried like fools that night and he left. Before I told him if we broke up no contact. SO he texts me that night to ask if he can call me. So he called. But for the next two weeks we basically didnt talk much..he'd text me to see how i was or Im. ANyhow two weeks later he says he's talking to some other girl but he doesnt want to get married yet. I go to australia and come back in april and find out from his sister that he is engaged to get married in June of this year. All I can say is what the F? He couldnt commit to me in 8 years but to some girl he just met in 2 months? How is that possible. IT hurts like hell and It doesnt make any sense at all ! I hope he burns in hell. THe wedding is in a week and a half for goodness sakes. HOw is this all even possible. SUch is life eh.
BeHappy Posted May 31, 2006 Posted May 31, 2006 Things happens... My bf of ten years broke up with me in March 06. I always want to marry and start a family with him. But it's not mean't to be. I am so sorry to hear that he is going to get marry with someone else. I can image how you feel now.
tikigods Posted June 1, 2006 Posted June 1, 2006 Im sorry you are dealing with this. It sounds to me that he didn't want to commit and then instead of taking time off from your relationship he jumped head first into the newest one he could find. I doubt it will last. I hope you can find agreat guy that will be devoted to ya
johan Posted June 1, 2006 Posted June 1, 2006 Such is life, indeed. You'll be ok. I imagine you'll be hanging around LS now, as you go through all the ups and downs. I just have one question: does your name (MFL) stand for Mational Football League?
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