Guest001 Posted May 31, 2006 Posted May 31, 2006 I was wondering if I could get yalls advice on my psycho ex girlfriend who cant seem to leave me alone. I'll try to be brief. Basically I was dateing this girl (the devil) for about 3 years. As much as I tried to have a good relationship with her she seemed to foil me at every turn. All in all her basic traits are compulsive lieing, cheating, and has a bad attitude for just about everything. You know, the one your mother told you not to date but you did anyway. At a point about a month and a half ago I broke all ties with her when I found out that she went out with my best friends wife and made out with a guy (whom she just met) the whole night. She and I werent dateing but we made an agreement that we wouldnt have sex or kiss anyone while we were talking. Luckly I wised up and let her go. A week after the breakup she was engaged (yeah cant figure that out) and things have been quiet for the past few weeks until the past few days. She spoke with my friends wife and asked how I was doing and from what I understand she told her I was doing excellent and went on to tell her about how well my current relationship was doing. I know that may sound weird but these are things she was asking and my friend just wasnt throwing it in her face but more so informing her. I really dont mind her doing that because I could care less about what she thinks and feels. The past few days shes been talking to everyone she knows (family included) about some very serious and terrible things that I did throught out our relationship. All are totally false and have no truth to them whatsoever. I'm the type guy everyone loves and the people who know me are shocked to hear anything bad about me because there isnt a bad bone in my body. Yet here I am dealing with someone whos out to make me look bad and try to get people against me whom would more than likely try to cause harm to me or my property. Im not so much worried about what people think, but I AM worried about my property and my person, not to mention my friends being attacked. Ive tried playing the nice approach of why are you doing this when you know I never did anything wrong type of attitude, but now Im just plain fed up with it. Tonight I decided to play it dirty and text her saying that if she didnt stop that I would make sure people would see some things. This was code for I have naked pictures of you that I will spread across the galaxy if any harm comes to me or anyone close to me. This isnt something that I would like to do, but I figured that I would put that out there as a warning. If I actually did I would be surprised but I feel its the only thing I can do to try and protect everything and everyone. Was that a good thing to do? What if I did post pics of her, would I get in trouble with the law? What can I do to help protect myself and my friends? Ive kept the texts that she sent saying that she wouldnt be able to stop what would happen to me. Could I show that to the police and get a restraining order from her? Maybe at least put something on record? Im at a loss for words on what exactly Im feeling but I would like anyone that has an opinion to post. It might help me decide what I need to do get away from her and her thug friends. Whew, not really brief. hehe Many thanks!!
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