Author Sapiens Posted June 12, 2006 Author Posted June 12, 2006 Hey, guess what? Kerri called to ask how my day was going and what I had planned for dinner tonight? Rushing things is she, huh? LOL, life is good! -Sapiens
Author Sapiens Posted June 14, 2006 Author Posted June 14, 2006 I met Kerri for dinner on Monday night. She insisted on paying since it was her that invited me out. She is an attorney and is very forward and seems to be really assertive. We began the conversation with some fluff talk, but soon she steered the conversation to deeper topics. She asked me straight out “why I haven’t been married and what is wrong with me since I seem too good to be true.” Then she proceeded to ask me if I wanted a family and if I was ready to settle down. I held my own and was ambiguous with my answers, I told her to read my actions and see if they are consistent with my words. She didn’t push, but seemed like she was interested in getting to know more of me. In effect I didn’t talk much and got her to tell me her “life” story; I found it amusing that she characterized all her past relationships as “utter failures with weak men.” I left the restaurant feeling like I have been subjected to listen to forced confessions. I don’t think I will pursue anything further, since I feel Kerri is in a rush on her “bio” clock; she is 34, I am 36. I also found it silly that when we parted ways she told me that she was not going to hold her breath while waiting for me to call. Hmm, I think the girl may be a bit jaded. In other matters, I have spotted a few other hotties I will be asking out and see what is up with them. Will let you know how it goes if you are interested. -Sapiens
Author Sapiens Posted June 14, 2006 Author Posted June 14, 2006 Oh, Dude you can't make this s*** up.! My Ex called and left a message that she is pregnant. She says that although she wasn't going to tell me, she feels that I must be informed... She claims not to know what she will do yet.... I had protected sex with her, I didn't go bare, not even to tease....yet this... Hmmm, a ruse perhaps? -Sapiens
Guest Posted June 14, 2006 Posted June 14, 2006 pay her to abort and move on. simple and quick. cut all contact.
2020vision Posted June 14, 2006 Posted June 14, 2006 GOOD LORD Your life is just one big bucket of drama. My best friend did the whole pregnancy deal with her ex bf only to try and get him to pay attention to her. Highly likely in this kind of ignore situation... But still it is a sticky situation, you would be an ass if you did not call her and she really was. Mistakes do happen, I would demand to see a pregnancy test.
Author Sapiens Posted June 15, 2006 Author Posted June 15, 2006 Your life is just one big bucket of drama. I know. I hope you like the show... you would be an ass if you did not call her and she really was. Mistakes do happen, I would demand to see a pregnancy test. Well, I am working on this. I called Jennie and asked what was going on. She went on and on as to what "we" did was so wrong and that it would never happen again. Jeesh! Anywho, after she got that out of her system I told her to come to my house. She didn't show up. I didn't call her, she then called and apologized for not coming, I replied that there wasn't any problem and not to bother anymore. Then she told me that my Ex was going to play some trick on me to get me back, she didn't say what the trick was. After that I told her I was very busy and had to go, but if she gets to know anything else to give me a call at any time. I am still formulating an answer to my Ex, my first reaction is to tell her she is lying, but that will put her on the defensive. If I act all concerned she may take that as a sign of interest, so I really don't have a clue yet as to how to reply. A note about Kerri, she called and asked how I felt after our dinner encounter. I told her the truth that I wasn't ready for a serious relationship and that we could be "friends" if she wanted. She then said she never thought of us being in a relationship and that she didn't see me that way. Oh boy. So, I cut the call short and headed to bed... You know, I like my Ex. I think she would be a caring and dedicated mother, also if it is true that she is pregnant I would be there for the baby. I just don't picture my life with her awful insecurity. -Sapiens
Author Sapiens Posted June 16, 2006 Author Posted June 16, 2006 After giving it some careful thought, I went to the pharmacy. I asked the pharmacist what he would recommend to carry out a pregnancy test. He recommended I use an EPT test kit. I bought 3. Then I called my Ex, but she didn’t answer. I left a message telling her that we needed to talk; I added that I wasn’t going to call again if she didn’t reply to my message. She eventually replied and we were able to talk and agreed to meet at a local café. I showed up ten minutes late, something I don’t usually do since I tend to be punctual. I am sure this threw her off since I am a stickler for time. Once I arrived we talked for a bit then I suggested we take a drive for privacy, she agreed. We drove about for a bit, then I headed to a local motel, where I already had a room waiting for me. Once inside the room we continued to talk, suddenly I told her to pee in one of the disposable cups that are provided by the motel for the use of its clients. She refused. I then said to her that if she refused, nothing was going to change my mind and I would walk away right now in that instant. After a bit of verbal exchange she relented and peed on the cup and I was able to use all three pregnancy test kits. All three were negative! I asked her why she would pull such a low stunt. She burst out crying and telling me how much she “loved” me and that she can’t see herself living without me. Right. We left the motel and headed to the café to pick up her car. After we arrived in the parking lot and she got in her car, I told her I never wanted to see her again and that our relationship is forever finished. I went home after that. I feel relieved and free again. I am done with this thread. I wish you the best and hope you have learned something useful from my experience. Women are treacherous. -Sapiens
overseas2004 Posted June 16, 2006 Posted June 16, 2006 You know what I think. I think that your female is insecure and its because of the fact that you do pay attention to other women and your ego encourages you to have conversations with them. Not that you were cheating but still you liked the attention and it bothered her. My ex had over 100 female friends. I am older, unlike your female, I didnt care because I saw how worthless the females he had around him were and I never made a fuss. Actually befriended a few of them myself. But I will tell you one thing after I read your post. After what you did with her friend, she is the lucky one. She is lucky not to be with you anymore. Not the other way around. You showed what a low class moron you really are. Wow, I wish I could tell her how lucky she is to be rid of you.
Author Sapiens Posted June 16, 2006 Author Posted June 16, 2006 You know what I think. I think that your female is insecure and its because of the fact that you do pay attention to other women and your ego encourages you to have conversations with them. Not that you were cheating but still you liked the attention and it bothered her. So you mean to tell me that, since I was with her I was not to look, speak or interact with any member of the opposite sex, just because it bothered her? How draconian is that? My ex had over 100 female friends. I am older, unlike your female, I didnt care because I saw how worthless the females he had around him were and I never made a fuss. Actually befriended a few of them myself. How worthless the other females were? How can you call other human beings worthless? But I will tell you one thing after I read your post. After what you did with her friend, she is the lucky one. She is lucky not to be with you anymore. Not the other way around. You showed what a low class moron you really are. Wow, I wish I could tell her how lucky she is to be rid of you. Low class moron? This is coming from you that categorizes other fellow human beings as "worthless". What I did with her so called friend was something between two consenting adults. Tough if you don't like it. Next time think before you reply, and I hope you don't hurt your brain while you are at it. I am sure the single brain cell may end up too exhausted to keep the rest of your bodily functions operating. -Sapiens
scrybe74 Posted June 16, 2006 Posted June 16, 2006 Hey Sapiens - your life if pretty interesting. I think you should keep us posted on your dating life. I'd be interested in how things end up. (Better than what's on T.V. for sure!)
Sleeps w/Butterflies Posted June 19, 2006 Posted June 19, 2006 Hey Sapiens - your life if pretty interesting. I think you should keep us posted on your dating life. I'd be interested in how things end up. (Better than what's on T.V. for sure!) I agree!
Author Sapiens Posted June 20, 2006 Author Posted June 20, 2006 There is a Starbucks coffee house across the street from my office. Every day I go there about 3:45 to get a cup of java. There is this gorgeous lady that is there maybe once or twice a week, I never asked her out since I was busy dating my Ex. Well today I spoke to her and had a great conversation. The conversation went very deep and I started to give her major eye contact with sexual innuendos, she kept her ground. I prodded a little deeper and found out she is a call girl who is majoring in Political Science. Beautiful woman, too bad she is a prostitute. My bulb went off, this woman seems so sure and confident from all those experiences servicing men. I pointed this out to her and she laughed; she then said no one has asked her out while at the Starbucks and I was the first one to be bold enough to “hit” on her. I laughed at this and asked her if it showed I was that “desperate?” She replied, “No, not desperate, just a snobbish a**h***.” Ah, new insight as to the way I am perceived, I love it! -Sapiens
johan Posted June 20, 2006 Posted June 20, 2006 She replied, “No, not desperate, just a snobbish a**h***.” Ah, new insight as to the way I am perceived, I love it! -Sapiens So what are you going to do with this insight? I'm not sure I would consider it a compliment, but I guess it depends on how she delivered it. To be honest, if I were to be called a snobbish a**h*** by a random hooker, I'm not sure I could process that into anything useful. It's kind of like if Hitler were to slap you on the back and say "you're a good guy". That could mean just about anything.
Author Sapiens Posted June 20, 2006 Author Posted June 20, 2006 It's kind of like if Hitler were to slap you on the back and say "you're a good guy". That could mean just about anything. Ah, Johan come over to the DarkSide!! LOL! Dude, the thing is she doesn't look like a hooker! Speaks well articulated sentences and would give any trick a run for his money. She doesn't flirt with anyone there, so I was hard press to think she was a pro. As for the insight? Yes, I am a snob. -Sapiens
Author Sapiens Posted June 22, 2006 Author Posted June 22, 2006 I have a question, please don't respond if you don't have a valid answer. I asked this lady out, she agreed. She is a BioChemist and seems very smart. I took her out and she said we had a "connection." After I took her home, she invited me in. I refused at first since I had to get up early, then she kissed me and asked me to stay for a bit. I spent the night. The next morning she tells me she is "embarrassesd" and that she has never done this kind of thing. Then she tells me it's ok if I don't call and that she does not want to get her hopes up so she asks me to "make no promises." What's with the no promises bit? -Sapiens
climbergirl Posted June 22, 2006 Posted June 22, 2006 What's to get? She likes you and is asking you to not f*** with her feelings.
johan Posted June 22, 2006 Posted June 22, 2006 I think she's just telling you that she understands that promises from a snobbish a**h*** are worthless. So don't waste your breath. Or maybe climbergirl has it right. Hard to say.
climbergirl Posted June 22, 2006 Posted June 22, 2006 I think she's just telling you that she understands that promises from a snobbish a**h*** are worthless. So don't waste your breath. Or maybe climbergirl has it right. Hard to say. Hmmmmm.....
Author Sapiens Posted June 22, 2006 Author Posted June 22, 2006 I think she's just telling you that she understands that promises from a snobbish a**h*** are worthless. So don't waste your breath. Or maybe climbergirl has it right. Hard to say. There were no promises made or implied by me, she brough it up. On a side note, why don't you head to the field and get some action and share your experiences with us, maybe then I can take the high road by following your example. LOL! -Sapiens
Author Sapiens Posted June 22, 2006 Author Posted June 22, 2006 What's to get? She likes you and is asking you to not f*** with her feelings. Thanks! -Sapiens
johan Posted June 22, 2006 Posted June 22, 2006 There were no promises made or implied by me, she brough it up. On a side note, why don't you head to the field and get some action and share your experiences with us, maybe then I can take the high road by following your example. LOL! -Sapiens I did head to the field: I'm out to pasture. I shared all my experiences for a long time up until about 6 months ago when all the interesting stuff ended. Lately I have no experiences to share, and I'm not really complaining about it. I'm just going to sit tight and wait for the rest of my life to happen to me. And I won't be found on the high road. If I go anywhere at all, I'll be on a trail somewhere getting lost and dodging Poison Ivy. So do NOT follow my example! You're doing fine, trust me. If nothing else, you've motivated me to pay more attention when I'm at Starbucks.
the_alchemyst Posted June 22, 2006 Posted June 22, 2006 Hmm. I thought biochemists and attorneys were supposed to be intelligent. Thank goodness I'm not majoring in chemistry anymore. Whew.
scrybe74 Posted June 22, 2006 Posted June 22, 2006 What's to get? She likes you and is asking you to not f*** with her feelings. I agree with climber girl. Sounds like she's trying to be cool and respectful and not crowd you but probably got carried away the night before and feels like she blew it. She may just really like you believe it or not. She sounds a lot better than your ex so far. How do you feel about her?
Mezzi Posted June 28, 2006 Posted June 28, 2006 She definitely over-reacted but in the same breath why return the smile of some girl in front of you? You said you had been in this situation before, if smiling at women upsets your girlfriend why do it? When guys smile at me when im with my boyfriend I act like I dont see them actually in general I dont return the smiles of any guy nowadays. Anyway, she should have just made a note of it, there was no need for the screaming so im going to say maybe she deserved to be dumped. Or maybe its one of those "when you think your actions are going to cause me to be at a disadvantage, you are doing me a favour" kind of things
j.carsey Posted June 28, 2006 Posted June 28, 2006 sapiens I stumbled into this thread just now and what can I say, my bulls*** detector is just off the freakin meter! You have some great posts man but I think you're making up some of this stuff. Not all of it, but there is exaggeration in there Then again, some of the things I've been up to recently sound just as far fetched so who knows?
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