Jozz Posted May 31, 2006 Posted May 31, 2006 Hey, so i met this girl and we both like each other. I do like her shes really cute and all but i ask her a lot of questions to try to kepe a conversation going. Problem she is kinda shy, but so am i, but i am really trying hard to keep conversations going but sometimes were silien for a few minutes. She doesnt ask me any questions or she rarely starts a conversation. I always gotta think of what to say before we meet so the conversations wont die. I went to the movies wit her and there were lots of quit moments when we were shopping around...... i am just wondering what i should do? We both like each other and i dont want to move on wit the relationship until she feels more comfortable.. what shud i do thnks... OH yes and we also go to the ssame school so i see her almost everyday but we dont talk that much every day... i also really want for our relationship to progress but i want her to be comfortable.... and i have known her for a while now problem is i kissed her a few times but i dont know if she is ready, but she seemed to like the kiss.. I am always taking the lead, and sometime i want her to, i want her to give me some signs she likes me. Her friends tell me she does like me but she doesnt give me any signs i am making all the moves eg: asking her to mall, trying to talk to her more stuff liek that, but i want her to come up to me and talk to me things liek that what should i do? There is also a lot of peer pressure going around, people telling me to go out wit her, which i kinda am but its really hard to keep the conversation going and to get her to talk more
KillaPetehog Posted May 31, 2006 Posted May 31, 2006 You got nothing to worry about. Obviously, she's shown signs of interest by going out with you and continuing to go out with you, etc... so you got nothing to trip about. This girl is almost yours. I am always taking the lead, and sometime i want her to, i want her to give me some signs she likes me. Her friends tell me she does like me but she doesnt give me any signs i am making all the moves eg: asking her to mall, trying to talk to her more stuff liek that, but i want her to come up to me and talk to me things liek that what should i do? I'll tell you something about conversations with women. Don't dominate the conversation. Let her talk. You need to ask her the RIGHT questions. Try not to ask her questions that can be answered with a simple "yes" or "no". Ask her open ended questions. Be confident, genuine, playful, creative, ambitious, positive, unpredicatable, passionate and cocky and funny. You've got nothing to worry about..this girl is pretty much giving you all the signs..now you just need to be a MAN and LEAD. Don't ever disuss problems with her...if you do so, YOU become her problem. Ask her questions. Ask her what movies she likes, what she likes to do for fun, what she likes in a lover...etc...MAKE SURE that the questions you ask are NOT what some TEPID friend will ask. Add a tinge of sexuality to your questions. A chump just asks about the weather and about work and about school. A guy who knows..asks about...things that TRIGGER emotion. Make sure that the questions you ask her make her FEEL. Ask her about her likes and dislikes, past, dreams, family, relationships, kissing, food, future, etc.. All that bullshyt that women like....FEELINGS! If you can't make her FEEL, your azz is out. Don't dominate the conversation. LISTEN. LISTEN. Let her talk. Women are funny...When they are the ones who are talking...they subconciously think that you're a cool guy...but it really was them talking the whole time...You NEVER want to be the guy who is talking a lot and she's just quiet...ASK open ended questions..Be mysterious. Be cocky and confident. If you got extra time...check out "how To win friends and influence people by Dale Carnegie". That should help you with your conversation skills. He's got some great points...some not so good..But it should help you out. And if that shyt doesn't work...then TELL HER to ask YOU questions. At least that will get her involved in the convo. Peace.
Author Jozz Posted May 31, 2006 Author Posted May 31, 2006 Hey, thanks a lot for your advise. I believe i do dominate the conversation to much, i ask her to many questions and probly not the right questions "the feeling" question ones. I am nto sure how to ask teh right feeling question, which i guess why its really hard to get her to talk more. I really would like her to talk more so i could listen to her, but i guess i am not asking the right questions.
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