Scared1 Posted May 30, 2006 Posted May 30, 2006 I am young, only 16, and new to all this dating stuff. Anyway, there was this girl in my class, and we would talk and laugh, etc, but the conversations were always about stupid stuff, not about each other. I know it is hard to tell if a girl really likes you, but I think she did. Then the class ended, and I haven't seen her in a month or so, and just a few days ago I started seeing her in the halls. We would walk by each other, but I never said hi and neither did she. Every day I say to myself, "I am going to go talk to her," but I always chicken out because I am afraid. Also, we couldn't have much of a conversation in the five minutes we get to walk to class, so what do I say - do I just ask her out of for her number or what?
Guest001 Posted May 31, 2006 Posted May 31, 2006 I am young, only 16, and new to all this dating stuff. Anyway, there was this girl in my class, and we would talk and laugh, etc, but the conversations were always about stupid stuff, not about each other. I know it is hard to tell if a girl really likes you, but I think she did. Then the class ended, and I haven't seen her in a month or so, and just a few days ago I started seeing her in the halls. We would walk by each other, but I never said hi and neither did she. Every day I say to myself, "I am going to go talk to her," but I always chicken out because I am afraid. Also, we couldn't have much of a conversation in the five minutes we get to walk to class, so what do I say - do I just ask her out of for her number or what? Well this is where things get tricky. First off you will never get anywhere unless you take that.......leap of faith. If you do nothing then you wont lose of gain anything, but if its something that you really wanna try for, just try it. Starting anything new will have your cofidence on the bottom floor, but ya need to suck it up and give it a try. I mean really whats the worse thing that could happen? She could say no, but is that really all that hard to deal with? Ok pep talk over now on what you should say. You could walk past her and say " hey I remember you from somewhere" look up to the sky for a sec or so and say "oh yeah I met you in class" etc... You could walk past her and compliment her on what shes wearing/reading. If you know one her friends ask a few questions about her (not all at one time youll raise suspision). Rember you really dont want her to know what your thinking and telling her friend that you like her MIGHT scare her into avoiding you. On the other hand it may help you. Thats something youll just have to feel out. If you an her have the same lunch period make sure you hang back until she comes in and stand in line with her. Walk past her, make eye contact with a smile a few times and she might just say something to you. These are just a few ideas running through my head but just remember to have confidence, no ums or errrs. Youll learn that its not all that big of a deal as your life goes on, but I understand on the whole getting started thing. Get some practice in now before you get to point of going out to bars/clubs/church etc... Things are gonna get more complicated but still managable. I also want to point out that for every 10 girls that say no, 1 will say yes. Youll always get more no than yes but everytime your learning and thats whats important. The only way to learn something is to go through it. Thats with everything in life. We get knocked down for the simple reason of learning how to stand back up. Ill keep my fingers crossed for ya bro, but Im sure you wont need it. If she says no, no bigie, PLENTY more out there. You never know she couldve been the biggest psycho out there. 8) Your inviting her into YOUR world and if she doesnt want to be a member theres ALWAYS someone who will.
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