too_nervous Posted May 30, 2006 Posted May 30, 2006 i met a very nice girl a few months ago during my work. shortly after meeting her and chating to her for a few weeks, i asked her out. her reply was yeah sure. after a few texts and phone chats i got a message saying that i wasnt her type. what a blow!! still onwards and upwards as they say. after not seeing her for a few weeks i suddenly see her waiting to cross the road ( she works about thirty seconds from my place of work), she gives a big smile and waves. i do the same back and then i am left wondering what the hell was all that about? wired how coinsedance goes, i started seeing her all the time, and after chating to her a few times again and giving her lifts home and stuff i am now wondering if i should give it another go. all of my work colegues say that i should try again. but i am just not sure. is she just being mates and trying to forget the past or might she have now changed her mind???? should i try again or not??? all advice is much appreciated. (p.s. i still really like her) Daniel
Pyro Posted May 30, 2006 Posted May 30, 2006 i met a very nice girl a few months ago during my work. shortly after meeting her and chating to her for a few weeks, i asked her out. her reply was yeah sure. after a few texts and phone chats i got a message saying that i wasnt her type. what a blow!! still onwards and upwards as they say. after not seeing her for a few weeks i suddenly see her waiting to cross the road ( she works about thirty seconds from my place of work), she gives a big smile and waves. i do the same back and then i am left wondering what the hell was all that about? wired how coinsedance goes, i started seeing her all the time, and after chating to her a few times again and giving her lifts home and stuff i am now wondering if i should give it another go. all of my work colegues say that i should try again. but i am just not sure. is she just being mates and trying to forget the past or might she have now changed her mind???? should i try again or not??? all advice is much appreciated. (p.s. i still really like her) Daniel She may be waving to you just because she is a nice person, or she may feel bad for breaking it off with you, or maybe she does have some feelings for you. Whatever it may be, you really have nothing to lose so why not give it another whirl, but if she is still not interested, then let it go. Good luck.
alphamale Posted May 30, 2006 Posted May 30, 2006 i got a message saying that i wasnt her type. OK, lets say there was a woman who you really liked, we'll call her X. One day you're moseying about and run into X. She starts idle chit chat then says she wants you to go to a party with her. Would you tell X that she's not your type?
whichwayisup Posted May 30, 2006 Posted May 30, 2006 She's just being friendly. No hard feelings - That is her message to you by being nice. With that being said, don't read into it and don't think now she wants to go out with you. Sorry.
Guest001 Posted May 31, 2006 Posted May 31, 2006 All good answers!! In my opinion I would just be friends with her. Whatever you do just make it friendly. She knows you like her and in her mind she has the upperhand with anything and everything. Wonder what she would think if she knew you werent all that interested in her anymore? Wonder what she would say if you you casually asked her "so Im not your type because of what, just curious. or "Im glad you did that, I could find myself falling for you but luckly you put on the breaks". Ask her advice about other women. "Theres this chick Ive been talking to and she" etc.. "This chick wont stop calling me and I really dont know what more I can do". If shes not interested then chances are youll only be friends, but that doesnt mean that as she gets to know you things will prob change. Just play it cool and dont let her know its a bother to you. Chances are she wonder why a guy isnt interested in her. That ALWAYS messes with a womans head. 8P
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