eyeswideshut Posted May 29, 2006 Posted May 29, 2006 I was reading a post just now and though for sure it was my married man posting. Except the story didn't jive on all accounts. What are the odds that he would come here and recognize me and himself? i've been so blatantly honest about everything. He'll just know it's me. Am I being paranoid? I don't know if he'd know about this site. But how would I know?
stillhere Posted May 29, 2006 Posted May 29, 2006 You never know, most of us found this site by search engines. Well, at least the story doesn't sound the same. My MM would never find this, doesn't touch the computer unless it's for ebay, in the winter and that's to find heavy equipment!!!! No heavy equipment here! He would know it was me for sure by everything i had written. That's why i feel safe here knowing that he would never know.......thank god.
amgine Posted May 30, 2006 Posted May 30, 2006 EWS Oh that's something that has crossed my mind to i worry he may read this, as (to me) its obvious who i'm talking about. But he never says anything to me about it.
zarathustra Posted May 30, 2006 Posted May 30, 2006 EWS Oh that's something that has crossed my mind to i worry he may read this, as (to me) its obvious who i'm talking about. But he never says anything to me about it. My H knows I visit here, but I don't think he knows who I am and he respects me enough to let me have this as my own thing. My exMM, I don't really give a rat's ass if he reads my thoughts or not. Personally, I don't think that he has been affected enough by us and our split to do a search for something like this. I don't think his wife is here either. There are times when I read the infidelity forum and think, hmmm... what are the chances, but I've not come across anything that made me think, "yes, that's her... for sure it is!". I think that she has not been affected enough either to do a search for support. Besides, I think that they are big on going to seeking 'professional' help for all of this. Just over a month ago, he told me about this amazing program they've been going to and its made them soooooooooo much closer, etc. (yes, I ran to the bathroom, threw up my lunch, cried and cried, etc.) and that my H and I should consider it. Yeah, heartless a-hole... When did I ever ask him to be my marriage counsellor?!?? He is so freakin' insensitive... then he comes by to check up on me and tell me bulls*** like he genuinely wants to be nice to me. Yeah, if he wants to be nice to me, then he should just stay the hell away from me, not come to my desk the first opportunity he gets.
ImWithHim Posted May 31, 2006 Posted May 31, 2006 My MM and I keep personal "real life" details off this site for that reason exactly. You just never know if his wife or someone who knows him well might stumble across it.
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