Ariel Posted May 28, 2006 Posted May 28, 2006 I've been faithfully in love with this man for more than 2 years.... Trouble is... He said he will never marry me... In fact, I don't care if he will marry me... As long as he stays loving me I'm contented, but... he plans to marry someone else someday just to have kids... or become a priest... We're both Catholics... I'm not barren... However, I'm a divorcee and he is a conservatist... Marrying a divorcee is a no-go. Its painful because we both reckon we should never have met but... we did... and we fell in love... I turned down all my suitors because my heart stays with him... Everybody I know is worried that my "time is running out"... Everybody who cares about me said I should dump him but I just can't let go of him. I'd rather die than throw him away. Its like a bad addiction... I know he'll hurt me but I still love him... He said loves me too and its painful to let go of me... However, he doesn't wanna keep torturing me when he can't stay with me forever... What he said probably sound like complete bulls*** to some of you... Its does to me from a lay man's point of view but... somehow... my heart believes him... He is the most doting lover I've ever had in my life and I can feel that he does love me very much... even until now... I almost tripped and fell 12 floors to my grave this morning because I was in a daze... I feel very helpless... I don't know what to do... Losing him is more painful than losing a limb....
RealBroken Posted May 28, 2006 Posted May 28, 2006 Oh Ariel, Can you go and get some advice from someone in the church? Maybe not all is what it seems. I can remember reading somewhere in the bible about marrying divorced people and that it was ok. Maybe talk to a priest etc about it. Might be worth it. I don't know what else to say. Just clear every avenue.
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