Guest Posted May 28, 2006 Posted May 28, 2006 My girlfriend left me a week ago. I miss her so much and want her to come back to me. She tells me she wants to be my friend still but thats it. We had such a good relationship. What would be the best way for me to make her fall back in love with me like she did when we were going out?
bigdogg1811 Posted May 28, 2006 Posted May 28, 2006 if she already loved you when you were going out, then just be yourself around her. if you want her back tho, you may have to go through a period of NC and that will make her miss you and if she really wants to get back together with you, then she will come back. don't force her back. don't call/text her constantly or even at all. if she wants to be friends, respect her wishes. if you want to make yourself look desirable to her, you have to give her space and understand her at this time. believe me...NC does work!
milokins Posted May 28, 2006 Posted May 28, 2006 Why do people always say they want to be friends? I've broken up with several guys and I have never once wanted to become friends. I have one ex that I am friends with but we didn't become friends until 2 years after we broke up. How long were you guys together? I'd say give her space. I'm going through the same thing right now and I think we have to let them miss us.
MTK Posted May 28, 2006 Posted May 28, 2006 Look at some of the archived threads. Don't be friends. F-that. Be strong. It'll suck cause you care about her. Don't call her, don't acknowledge her, don't seem like you need her. Go to no contact (NC). If she doesn't want to date you and she's willing to piss what you had down the toilet, you've got to stand up, brush yourself off, and concentrate on improving yourself. Let her get burned. NC Guide -> read this and similar threads.
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