sweetie7 Posted May 27, 2006 Posted May 27, 2006 My bf and I broke up about 1.5 months ago and I've been having fun being single; definitely a new experience for me. I met a really great guy recently who actually lives in my apt. building and we started hanging out. The first night we hung out w/ a bunch of people and ended up kissing for hours after everyone was gone. We've been hanging out pretty much every day for a week just casually-going to a bar, watching tv, talking, etc. The other night he invited me over and we started to hook up. In the middle of it, he started asking me about past relationships and what i was looking for. It turns out he recently got out of a relationship and he said he isn't really looking to be in one right now. I'm really not either, so that's fine but it was just awkward to really be talking about it. Then he asked me if I wanted to sleep over so I did. We ended up hooking up a lot, like almost having sex but not quite. I feel really bad about myself now and feel like he's going to think I'm really slutty. I'm 23 and have only had sex w/ 2 guys who I've been in long term relationships with. I'm not the kind of girl who goes around hooking up with random guys but there's something about this guy that made me lose control haha. I think the thing is, I don't want to be in a relationship right now bc I just got out of one, but I do actually like this guy. If I was looking for a relationship, I can totally see myself with him. I'm pretty sure he likes me too but also isn't ready for anything...I haven't been pushy; he's always the one to call me and we've been going out and doing more than just hooking up. Also, though I don't want to be in a relationship, it was weird to have him say he doesn't want one and then to keep hooking up with him. Now I feel like he's going to see me as a slutty girl who will basically sleep with a guy after knowing him for a week...did I ruin any chance of a future w/ this guy?
Solachica Posted May 28, 2006 Posted May 28, 2006 Talk to him and tell him wht you just said here....tht you don't usually do wht you did and if his opinion of you is tht you are slutty?? Might as well start with good communication...so ask & tell him whtever is on your mind.
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