Diver012 Posted May 27, 2006 Posted May 27, 2006 Dont ever date anyone you work with. How can you go NC when you work together? What is the best way to handle it? Luckily I work on the opposite side of the property than she does... but with my job, I am required to go all over the place... Im going to run into her... Ive already run into her 3 times. I guess I need to find a way to pretend, im totally cool with being dumped by the woman I love, without explanation other than, my feelings have changed.... Oh, and this isnt a I want to win her back thread... after being pushed in front of teh bus like this, I wouldnt take her back if she begged. I have more respect for myself than that.
Big_A Posted May 27, 2006 Posted May 27, 2006 Just ignore her if you don't have to work directly with her. More importantly, always maintain your cool at work. Don't break down in front of work peers. If your feeling like getting into her head a little, flirt with the other woemn at work.
Rosalind Posted May 27, 2006 Posted May 27, 2006 yes, it's never wise to get involved romantically with someone from work..but you already know that NOW... you actually sound like you're handling this ok...you're not aching to get her back...but unfortunately complete NC is not possible for you, would you be willing to find another job?
Author Diver012 Posted May 27, 2006 Author Posted May 27, 2006 yes, it's never wise to get involved romantically with someone from work..but you already know that NOW... you actually sound like you're handling this ok...you're not aching to get her back...but unfortunately complete NC is not possible for you, would you be willing to find another job? Thats a possibility... As far as flirting with other chicks at work, I dont need to go there again with another chick.. even if its just harmless. Last thing I need is 2 ex girlfriends at work.. lol
Solachica Posted May 28, 2006 Posted May 28, 2006 Good for you...keep your self respect high. I know it wud be hard but just ignore her.
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