stories sound so similar wouldn't be suprised if some of us were seeing the same MM

[pricillia]

Hi

 

I would not be suprised if some of us out there are seeing the same MM.

Some of the stories out there sound so similar, I wonder is it is just coincidence or if there is more in common than I think.

 

My MM is so good at what he does I think that he believes his own lies. He gets what he wants from me gets closer then pushes me away. Always knowing what to say and what to do to pull me back in... I am tired of it. I work with him in the metro west boston area and I see him try to be charming to other women in our office to see how far he can go. I think he likes it that I do not say anything. I call him the golden child in my office as he get's away with almost anything I do not know why people allow it or why I allow him to disrespect me in the way that he has been, he has been acting more like a boy than a man lately. I tell him lately that I hate him and I am starting to really feel that way. He is a user and a manipulator!

[Sami_D]

Well you're not seeing my MM, that's certain.

[pricillia]

Well you're not seeing my MM, that's certain.

 

ok one down... LOL

[Sami_D]

ok one down... LOL

 

Now THAT is funny

[movinon05]

jersey here. not mine!! lol!

[movinon05]

and before this thread starts to get long about who is not your MM, i think we will just realize this is universal!

[pricillia]

and before this thread starts to get long about who is not your MM, i think we will just realize this is universal!

 

 

no kidding... but I am sure that for each of us OW with each MM there is another out there that he may be doing the same thing with, maybe right under our noses...

[movinon05]

no kidding... but I am sure that for each of us OW with each MM there is another out there that he may be doing the same thing with, maybe right under our noses...

 

no doubt! and some OW would never know. just like they don't know many things he really does or says to his W or whoever.

 

I have to tell you though, I don't think I'd care for the fact that your MM is a flirt! I know I wouldn't stand for it.

[pricillia]

no doubt! and some OW would never know. just like they don't know many things he really does or says to his W or whoever.

 

I have to tell you though, I don't think I'd care for the fact that your MM is a flirt! I know I wouldn't stand for it.

 

he is such a flirt!!! It drives me crazy although I do keep my cool and just go about my business! I am pretty sure I am done anyway at this point. The other day i made a comment after he had said something. I said listen to that voice crack and it was infront of the other male employees, he then rudely said what the F is your problem, he has never been like that towards me ever. I e-mailed him to tell him that I honestly thought that it was cute and that is why I said it, and he said that I should say things like that only to him via e-mail or in private.

 

I think I touched a nerve!

[movinon05]

Sounds like he's got an ego as well!! If you're heading away, then you're getting signs! Good luck to you.

[pricillia]

yes he as an ego, friends that I confide in have never met him... they joke around about meeting his ego though...

[scarletletter]

Too bad I didn't know about you before I got back from Boston on Thursday night. I was there all week on business at the Omni Parker House. We could have gone out for a drink and shared horror stories...lol. My mm sounds a little like yours in that he gets what he wants from me...satisfies him for a while and then he ignores me for a couple of days...pisses me totally off!! He denies this, but he really can't. Otherwise, he is perfect in every other way except that he is married.

[pricillia]

Too bad I didn't know about you before I got back from Boston on Thursday night. I was there all week on business at the Omni Parker House. We could have gone out for a drink and shared horror stories...lol. My mm sounds a little like yours in that he gets what he wants from me...satisfies him for a while and then he ignores me for a couple of days...pisses me totally off!! He denies this, but he really can't. Otherwise, he is perfect in every other way except that he is married.

 

Scarletletter,

 

Yes he always pushes me away and it is after he tells me that he is falling for me. I never reply as I do not want to go there. I work with him and he tells me that the other Men, actually they are boys in the office want me as well

[pricillia]

like I care about that. I think that I am a challenge that way for him

[movinon05]

like I care about that. I think that I am a challenge that way for him

 

Sounds more like you are a conquest. And he feels he won!

[scarletletter]

To me that would be an insult...what do these men think? Some of them are so "ego" driven that they cannot see beyond their own feelings. I sometimes feel patronized and humiliated after I spend time with my mm...because I am always the one opening up to him and he just cannot seem to tell me his feelings. If I ask him, he will answer yes or no, but he will never elaborate. He just shuts down. He tells me it's a defense mechanism that keeps him grounded. WHATEVER!! I'm the dumb ass that still loves him anyway.

[movinon05]

To me that would be an insult...what do these men think? Some of them are so "ego" driven that they cannot see beyond their own feelings. I sometimes feel patronized and humiliated after I spend time with my mm...because I am always the one opening up to him and he just cannot seem to tell me his feelings. If I ask him, he will answer yes or no, but he will never elaborate. He just shuts down. He tells me it's a defense mechanism that keeps him grounded. WHATEVER!! I'm the dumb ass that still loves him anyway.

 

I dont' know what's worse. My exMM had no problem telling me how he felt about everything. So, do I believe him? Ach. Doesn't matter now. I wouldn't like it if my MM could not open up to me about his feelings.

[pricillia]

yes I think so, and then when I seem uninterested or other men talk to me he starts it all over again. There is one new woman in the office and I think that he may be interested in her, kind of makes me sick but I think that is my cue to stay away from him. There is also another woman(girl)

in our office that he talks to all day long.

 

he said to me the other day that this will end some day and laughed and said when one of us get another job...

I replied for me it will be sooner or later, and he said oh what will I do with out you...

[Sami_D]

To me that would be an insult...what do these men think? Some of them are so "ego" driven that they cannot see beyond their own feelings. I sometimes feel patronized and humiliated after I spend time with my mm...because I am always the one opening up to him and he just cannot seem to tell me his feelings. .

 

 

JC... why would you be involved with him????

 

Don't you want to get out of this..?

[pricillia]

To me that would be an insult...what do these men think? Some of them are so "ego" driven that they cannot see beyond their own feelings. I sometimes feel patronized and humiliated after I spend time with my mm...because I am always the one opening up to him and he just cannot seem to tell me his feelings. If I ask him, he will answer yes or no, but he will never elaborate. He just shuts down. He tells me it's a defense mechanism that keeps him grounded. WHATEVER!! I'm the dumb ass that still loves him anyway.

 

 

I feel the same way, when I tell my MM that I feel guilty about being with him he states that is how he used to feel too. I feel humiliated as well, some things that he says to me during love making HMMM makes me think

[movinon05]

yes I think so, and then when I seem uninterested or other men talk to me he starts it all over again. There is one new woman in the office and I think that he may be interested in her, kind of makes me sick but I think that is my cue to stay away from him. There is also another woman(girl)

in our office that he talks to all day long.

 

he said to me the other day that this will end some day and laughed and said when one of us get another job...

I replied for me it will be sooner or later, and he said oh what will I do with out you...

 

Ugh! Does he have one bit of conscience?

[stillhere]

Why do you allow him to be so cruel. My MM is nothing but loving.......if he was cruel to me in this way, i would have been gone a long time ago. You're just a piece of meat to him.

 

My MM talks dirty during sex, but i think it's cute. It's not like him, so it threw me off at first, but now, i think it's adorable.

[stillhere]

Why do you allow him to be so cruel. My MM is nothing but loving.......if he was cruel to me in this way, i would have been gone a long time ago. You're just a piece of meat to him.

 

My MM talks dirty during sex, but i think it's cute. It's not like him, so it threw me off at first, but now, i think it's adorable.

[pricillia]

Why do you allow him to be so cruel. My MM is nothing but loving.......if he was cruel to me in this way, i would have been gone a long time ago. You're just a piece of meat to him.

 

My MM talks dirty during sex, but i think it's cute. It's not like him, so it threw me off at first, but now, i think it's adorable.

 

 

he is sometimes cruel and sometimes sweet , he does talk dirty during sex, most of the time I like it but he sometimes calls me a whore, I think I stopped that... does that make him a male slut?

 

then he states that he is my man, and makes me say it during sex...

 

The whole thing really bothers me to the point that I wish he would finally get another job

[BUTAFLY]

Gwad ...are you sure is name is not brian? the pushing away and pulling me back in....he is a pro at that. and as for being the big man in the office. that is def. my ex-mm. Every guy wants to be him and every girl wants to f*** him. makes me sick.!!